Monday Mood – December 1st

It’s always nice when we start a new month on a Monday.

It’s the rare alignment of beginnings: a new week, a new month, and the final chapter of the year. Add to that the extra bonus (for those shoppers who didn’t get enough of Black Friday sales) it’s cyber Monday!

The calendar feels like a doorway, swinging open to both endings and beginnings at once. Each tick of the clock whispers: this is the start of the finish, the prologue to the finale.

And yet, there’s joy in it – the sparkle of holiday lights, the hum of anticipation, the quiet thrill of knowing that 2025 is winding down, making space for something new. Something fresh.

It’s not just Monday, not just December, but the beginning of the end, and the end of the beginning.

A time for reflection, renewal, and readiness to embrace it all.

I’m ready.  How about you?

“Sorry…not sorry…We’re Canadian!”

HAPPY CANADA DAY!

The one day we’re extra proud to be the only nation where two people bump into each other and both apologize. We Canadians apologize like it’s a competitive sport.‘Sorry,’ ‘No; I’m sorrier!’ We can’t help it if politeness is one of our traits. But there are so many others…

Oh, where to begin! Canada has so many brag-worthy qualities, we could fill a canoe with them. Here are a few highlights:

Stunning landscapes and open spaces: from the Rockies to the Maritimes, Canada offers wild beauty in every province and territory. Lakes, forests, prairies, tundra; you name it, we’ve got it.

Cultural richness: with a deep Indigenous heritage and vibrant multiculturalism, Canada is a mosaic of languages, traditions, and stories that help shape its identity.

Social values: Canadians are known globally for kindness, inclusivity, and that famous “sorry” reflex. It’s a place that strives toward equity and care for its people.

Innovation and talent: from insulin to Canadarm, and from Joni Mitchell to Drake, Canadians have made waves in science, arts, and pop culture. A rich Canadian legacy of discoveries and inventions that have shaped the world in ways both big and small. Here are just a few highlights:

  • Insulin – As you already know, this life-saving treatment for diabetes was discovered by Canadian researchers in 1921.
  • The pacemaker – Canadian electrical engineer John Hopps developed the first external pacemaker in the 1950s, paving the way for modern cardiac care.
  • IMAX – That immersive movie experience? Born in Canada in the late 1960s.
  • Canadarm – A robotic arm developed for NASA’s space shuttle program, it became a symbol of Canadian innovation in space exploration.
  • Standard time zones – Introduced by Canadian Sir Sandford Fleming in the 19th century to solve railway scheduling chaos.
  • The snowmobile – Invented by Joseph-Armand Bombardier, it revolutionized winter travel in snowy regions.
  • Walkie-talkies – Created by Donald Hings during WWII to improve battlefield communication.
  • Hawaiian pizza (yes, with pineapple!) was invented by a Greek-Canadian in Ontario.

Healthcare and safety – Universal healthcare is a big point of pride, as is a strong sense of community.

Not sorry for MY PERSONAL CANADIAN EXPERIENCES:

Earlier this month in the Okanagan, B.C. – visiting local wineries.   British Columbia and Ontario are the largest wine-producing provinces.

I got my fashion sense from growing up in Montreal, a business sense from having lived/worked in Toronto, and an appreciation for outdoor sports from making Vancouver my home. I’ve visited every single Province in Canada. Some famous visitations have included Niagara Falls, Banff National Park, the scenic Cabot Trail in Cape Breton Island, whale watching in Tofino, walking along The Bay of Fundy when the tide was way out, camping at Gros Morne National Park in Newfoundland and eating fresh scallops right off the boat in Digby, Nova Scotia. Eating seafood in every Maritime Province, actually. I’ve visited the Yukon (which is considered a Territory; not a Province).

I’ve stayed at some of the most iconic resorts/hotels in Canada. Among them; a turret room at Le Château Frontenac in Quebec City overlooking the St. Lawrence River, The Algonquin Resort at St. Andrews by the Sea, New Brunswick (occupied the same room that Joan Collins had just checked out of and where we accidentally proceeded to start an electrical fire during our stay). Ritz Carlton in Montreal (where Elizabeth Taylor married Richard Burton), some very nice lodges like The Bluenose & the Keltic Lodge in Nova Scotia and a few dives in between.

I love my Vancouver location; it’s a neighbourhood feel that truly feels like home. I’m within walking distance to everything I need; not just grocery stores and transit, but also the little indulgences like cafés, bakeries, boutiques, parks and a bench with a view. That’s what makes a place quietly extraordinary. I don’t like to get in my car except when necessary and wouldn’t survive living in the suburbs.  I’ve joked that if need be, I’d much rather live in a small condo in Kits than a mansion in Mission. I’m lucky that I have the kind of lifestyle that makes every day errands feel like part of a vibrant, joyful routine. Walkability is one of life’s underrated luxuries. It really is a dream. I’ve liked other cities for other reasons, but nothing beats the stunning natural scenery, outdoor lifestyle, and milder weather of Vancouver.

So on Canada Day, we celebrate not just the birthday of a country, but all the things that make Canada genuinely worth cheering for.

As for being unapologetically Canadian, on Canada Day, amid the festivities, I’m sure there will be far more of us singing “O Canada” than the Connie Francis 1958 hit song “Who’s Sorry Now?

What do you find special about Canada?

Arts Club – Primary Trust

PRIMARY TRUST is much more than a simple stage play set in a little town half an hour east of Rochester, New York.  This play was the winner of the 2024 Pulitzer Prize for Best Drama – By Eboni Booth.  From February 6th – March 2nd, 2025 at the Arts Club Theatre-Granville Island Stage.  Go to bottom of page for ticket info.

Unfortunately, I was unable to attend the Canadian Premiere.  This review was written by Paul LeMay; a professional writer, on my behalf.  It’s difficult to condense a whole play into a few paragraphs for a multitude of reasons – from monologues that are rich in dialogue to complexity of plot, themes and messages. I think he did a great job in narrowing the story down so that you still get the message without knowing everything.  I believe this story will resonate with many.

It’s more than the simple story of a young black man who suddenly loses his job in a family-owned bookstore after working there for over twenty years. It’s about a man forced to confront the mind-numbing self-comforting of his near daily routine of drinking many a Mai-Tai during Happy Hour at Wally’s Tiki-bar with his best friend Bert.

Photo courtesy of Arts Club.

Though the play draws its name from the bank where Kenneth eventually finds a new job as a teller, Primary Trust is about what it means to leave one’s own protective inner shell to confront one’s own early life traumatic losses. But allowing others to help us navigate that very delicate terrain to discover the healthier person we are beyond the trauma is also part of this story. So despite the surface-level simplicity of this light comedic play’s story premise, it’s one that proves able to dial into the proverbial emotional vulnerability found at the centre of each of us, and in so doing, it is more than enough to hit home in a meaningful manner. Don’t be surprised if tears rise to the surface when an inner recognition of this fact comes about, proving once again why theatre can often be both cathartic and healing for so many in attendance. 

The performances of all the cast members were outstanding. The principal character Kenneth played by Andrew Broderick was convincing in his ability to convey the measure of innocence needed for this role. Broadus Mattison asKenneth’s friend Bert exemplified a powerful steadying mentorship presence that his deep gravitas voice instantlycommunicated.  Andrew Wheeler was comedic in his portrayal of two of his quirkier characters, while also soberly convincing in his portrayal as the book store owner. And Celia Aloma was a veritable chameleon in her ability to almost instantly morph into a half dozen different characters as the script demanded throughout the course of the play.

Photo courtesy of Arts Club.

And the music was never overly intrusive, but usefully supportive. In short, each cast member was an amazing credit to the successful staging of this play. Bravo!

Primary Trust – winner of the 2024 Pulitzer Prize for Best Drama – By Eboni Booth

Canadian Première – Arts Club Theatre Company, Vancouver Granville Island Stage, Feb 6-Mar 2, 2025

Cast:

Celia Aloma (Corrina/Wally’s Tiki Bar Waitress /Bank Customers)

Andrew Broderick (Kenneth – main character)

Anton Lipovetsky (Musician)

Broadus Mattison (Bert, Kenneth’s best friend)

Andrew Wheeler (Clay the Bookstore owner /Sam/ Waiter @ Le Pousselet)

Directed by Ashlie Corcoran

https://artsclub.com/shows/2024-2025/primary-trust

 

2025 – here we go!

WISHING EVERYONE

A HEART-FELT HEALTHY, HAPPY NEW YEAR.  I’d like to say “The Best is Yet to Come”  but I believe that really depends on us to do the best we can, to make it so.

A New Year is like a blank page.  A new Chapter. If you keep the page blank, it can never be edited, only a poorly written one can.  Think about that!

Once again; I don’t really have resolutions – only hopeful solutions to try to improve my personal circumstances and well being, and make things better in general.  Little improvements here and there.  I continually read labels and omit the bad stuff so eating healthier is always a given. If I really crave something sweet it’s likely not to make the cart if I read the label first. Darn; why did I read it!

Try to work out with weights again I don’t really like to as it’s important when you get older to prevent osteoporosis.

I wanted to join a book club because I found myself getting away from reading and so now I’m in two.  Careful what you wish for because now I have to take up speed reading (kidding).

Simplifing my daily life with quality over quantity which I think everyone should do.  Goes for food, friends, clothing…..did I already say clothes? I’m working on it.

More pajama parties.  As much as I love getting dressed up, there’s something to be said for going out in something you can just go home to sleep in.

I asked Adele & Layla to be respectful and wear t-shirts, as they usually sleep in the nude.

And finally, get more inspiration to spark creativity. This can come from many things.  Not only art and culture, but books, music, nature, people and personal experiences of joy, sorrow, success, or failure that shape our perspective. Which reminds me, I have to post pics of David Hockney; Perspective Should be Reversed from Palm Springs Art Museum.  I was totally inspired by his diverse works of art.  I really want to buy one of  his art books but I don’t have enough coffee tables.

I’m off to the Palm Springs Film Festival (PSIFF) which begins on January 3rd and ends on the 13th.  I’ll be back here with reviews, rants and recommendations on whatever I see.

How about you?  Any resolutions and how do you feel about grown-up PJ parties?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Steve & the extra-celestials

I was thinking about the wide-ranging group of friends and acquaintances in my life.  Many are professionals in business, finance or the arts. Some are four-legged and some have wings.

Photo: d. king

This past season in Palm Springs I can add among the list of people I’ve met a professional opera singer, a designer/hotelier, a dating expert, a nightclub owner who moonlights as a female impersonator, an energy healer, a 93-year-old book author and two younger ones, the protégé of a famous deceased person, a big pharma whistleblower who was awarded an historic settlement and a few more accomplished artists, entertainers, philanthropists and local legends. It all makes for an eclectic bunch.

But then there’s the fascinating hummingbird whisperer. His name is Steve; a musician and former long standing jeopardy contestant who prefers to see the lighter side of life.  Steve has a special ability to attract, interact with, and understand his fine feathered friends. He has a deep appreciation for these tiny birds and knows their behavior, habits, and preferences.

Steve with my friend Shawn. Photo: d. king
Steve with long time Jeopardy host Alex Trebek.

Steve is fondly known as the Hummingbird Whisperer of Palm Springs by a select lucky few (although the numbers seem to be growing), for a good reason. Steve is a trove of information on all things hummingbirds. He sets up tons of feeders outside his home including swings they love to perch on and knows them individually.  He also has a YouTube channel (Palm Springs Hummingbirds) where he sets up a camera each night at feeding time to film the activities. It’s a remarkable sight to witness so many of them all in one area.  Plus they seem to know him.  The dedication he has for them is astounding.  And you can ask him pretty much any question about hummingbirds and he knows the answer.

I first found out about this delightfully knowledgeable man after seeing a Facebook post of a friend showing a video of her feeding hummingbirds with some of them perched on her hand.  I contacted her to find out where this place was because I wanted to go.  She could not give out the address (which makes sense; it is after all, his home) but she told me to meet her somewhere and she’d take me there. Now that I know where it is, I’ve since taken others there myself. As it so happens, it’s within walking distance from my place.  It’s always best to go at sunset.  That’s when the swarm starts.

Photo: d. king

If you’ve ever had an experience with a hummingbird up close and personal, you know how precious it feels.  You don’t know why exactly, it just is. These little light feathered beings are resilient and can teach us a lot.

To some people, these tiny fliers are an inspiring sign of hope and good luck. Hummingbirds also can have a spiritual significance and mean the spirit of a loved one is near. But whatever the meaning, it’s always special to see one.  Imagine seeing hundreds all at once! Everyone loves the experience, especially when the hummingbirds feel comfortable enough with trust to come and eat out of your hands. A sight to behold...literally.

 Here are some fun facts which Steve knows:

1.       Incredible metabolism: Hummingbirds have an incredibly high metabolism. They need to consume about half their body weight in sugar each day just to maintain their energy levels.

2.      Hovering prowess: Unlike most birds, hummingbirds can hover in mid-air by rapidly flapping their wings in a figure-eight pattern, allowing them to feed from flowers while remaining stationary.

3.      Migration marvels: Some species of hummingbirds are migratory and undertake remarkable journeys. For instance, the Ruby-throated Hummingbird can fly non-stop for up to 18 hours during its 500-mile migration across the Gulf of Mexico.

4.      Remarkable memory: Hummingbirds have exceptional memory skills. They can remember every flower they have visited, how long it takes for flowers to refill with nectar, and the specific location of each flower.

5.      Color perception: Hummingbirds are attracted to bright colors, particularly red and orange. This is because these colors often indicate the presence of nectar-rich flowers.

6.      Extraordinary tongues: Hummingbirds have long, extendable tongues that allow them to reach deep into flowers to extract nectar. Their tongues can extend up to twice the length of their beaks.

7.      Tiny nests: Hummingbirds build the smallest nests of any bird species. They often use materials like spider silk to construct their nests, which allows them to expand as the chicks grow.

8.     Aggressive behavior: Despite their small size, hummingbirds can be fiercely territorial and will aggressively defend their feeding and nesting territories from other birds, including much larger species.

9.      Exceptional flight skills: Hummingbirds are incredibly agile flyers, capable of flying forwards, backward, sideways, and even upside down. They can reach speeds of up to 30 miles per hour.

10.  Longevity: While the lifespan of most hummingbird species is relatively short, ranging from 3 to 5 years, some individuals have been known to live for more than a decade in captivity.

These are just a few of the many remarkable aspects of hummingbirds that make them some of the most fascinating birds in the world!

And isn’t it wonderful that someone takes the time, energy and love to set up and clean so many feeders each day?  I look forward to going back again and again.

Have you ever had a similar experience?

Beautiful – the Carole King Musical

I saw this (previously On Broadway) Musical the other night and really, really enjoyed it.  Fabulous songs we all know (or should) performed by talented actors/singers/musicians.  How can anyone not love Carole King?

Unveiling the Tapestry of her life…the good, the bad, the incredible…

There’s comfort in the familiar. This is one of the least pretentious album covers of all time.

 “All I needed to do was sing with conviction, speaking my truth from the heart, honestly and straightforwardly, and to offer my words, ideas and music to the audience as if it were one collective friend that I’d known for a very long time.” – Carole King

Kaylee Harwood did a superb job as Carole King. Photo: Moonrider Productions for the Arts Club Theatre Company

Carole King started out her humble beginnings as Carole Klein  (she’s claimed it would take her five decades to appreciate her surname and the history that came with it) living in a Brooklyn apartment with her separated piano teacher mother, but ended up living her dream of becoming a master song writer and as we all now know; a music legend.

The pianist/song writer had a strong conviction in her ability to write great songs and enough chutzpah to walk into a music producer’s office in Manhattan with her sheet music and no appointment and ask for an audition.  She was lucky. The producer happened to be there and she left getting hired on the spot to write music at the age of 15.  Having already skipped two grades, she was a smart cookie and her determination paid off. She signed her first contract with ABC-Paramount that same year. 

From there she grew up pretty fast.

Kirk Smith, Kaylee Harwood, Kamyar Pazandeh, and Daniela Fernandez. Photo: Moonrider Productions for the Arts Club Theatre Company.

She met lyricist Gerry Goffin while still a teenager and by the age of 20 she was a married mother of two. Together they co-wrote many singles that made it to top charts for stars like The Shirelles “Will You Still Love Me Tomorrow,” and Aretha Franklin’s (you make me feel like a) “Natural Woman.”  Hope they don’t ban that song or change the words – don’t get me started!  “You’ve Got a Friend” became a No. 1 hit for James Taylor and he was apparently too nervous to speak to her on the first night they met.  

It was these pop standards that led John Lennon to remark that, when he and Paul McCartney first got together, they wanted to be “the Goffin-King of England.” It was those songs that were given to Randy Newman in demo form as examples of perfect writing (he has called King his hero).

I only wanted to be a songwriter. I never wanted to be a singer. And I never wanted to be famous.” – Carole King

Ivy Charles, Dawn Pemberton, Maria Fernandes, and Ali Watson as “The Shirelles.” Photo: Moonrider Productions for the Arts Club Theatre Company.

For the purpose of this post I prefer to focus on King’s musical accomplishments and not so much on her personal life, however I should point out that she suffered some emotional abuse when Goffin couldn’t stop his cheating heart with women they knew and worked with.  King tried to stick it out chalking the infidelities up to the fact that they got married so young.  But there was only so much she could take and she ended up moving on.

And move on she did…

The day before Tapestry came out Carole King turned 28, by which time she had been in the music business for more than a decade.  The only thing she wasn’t confident about was her own singing voice, but since the album was very personal and she wasn’t sure who she could get to sing it, she decided to do so.

Tapestry  was one of my all time favourite albums and of course I’m not alone.  like so many others, I knew all the words to every song . Tapestry has been certified 14× Platinum by the Recording Industry Association of America in the US, and has sold an estimated 25 million copies worldwide, making it one of the best-selling albums of all time.

Shaquan Lewis, Hal Wesley Rogers, Andrew J. Hampton, and Tenaj Williams Lynch as “The Drifters.” Photo: Moonrider Productions for the Arts Club Theatre Company.

One of her proudest accomplishments was playing Carnegie Hall in 1971.

It was the first time she played in front of a live audience with a roster that formerly included Tchaikovsky, George Gershwin, Billie Holiday, Judy Garland and The Beatles. A music-making honour roll of artists representing the finest of every genre has filled Carnegie Hall throughout the years. Carole King was now among them. It was moving when Goffin showed up and surprised her and said “I’m Sorry.”

King was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame as a solo artist in 2021.

I highly recommend this production showcasing unforgettable classics by King and her contemporaries—“The Locomotion,” “One Fine Day,” “You’ve Lost That Lovin’ Feeling,” “Will You Love Me Tomorrow,” “(You Make Me Feel Like a) Natural Woman,” and many more.

Some cast members. Photo by Moonrider Productions for the Arts Club Theatre Company

Where is she now?  Inquiring minds want to know

After moving to Los Angeles and living in Laurel Canyon for a spell, she relocated to Idaho after retiring from actively making music in 2012.  Although she still attends various events and award shows, in recent years, King has focused on her personal life and philanthropic endeavors. She is a strong advocate for environmental and political causes, and has used her platform to raise awareness and funds for various organizations.  She has 4 children and is now 81 years old and still looking good.

You’ve got to get up every morningWith a smile on your faceAnd show the world all the love in your heartThen people gonna treat you betterYou’re gonna find, yes you willThat you’re beautiful, as you feel – lyrics from “Beautiful” by Carole King.

Playing until August 6th at the Stanley Industrial Alliance Stage – An Arts Club Production.

https://artsclub.com/shows/2022-2023/beautiful-the-carole-king-musical

It’s a Beautiful show.

 

Monday Mood: Fresh Start

It’s Monday.  A new start to the week.  And the second week of a brand new Year. A time when people wake up to possibility of new beginnings.  A time for reflection and cleaning up our act, even if just a little bit.

We like to keep things fresh. From fresh vegetables to a new relationship, everything that’s fresh is uplifting.  It’s just making sure the vegetables don’t go bad before eating them, and that the relationship continues to evolve instead of dissolve.  A little effort goes a long way in trying to maintain a balance.

Personally I think that the main reason so many resolutions fail is that people set unreasonable standards for January 1st.  Why not just pick a date and do something to improve your life, be it in business or relationships or both?

I’m certainly no expert (my plan to work out more starting in January never succeeds and I’m still not fluent in Spanish) but contemplating a little positive change can be a definite mood enhancer.

My little step forward is having joined a women’s empowerment workshop in order to set a new intention to this new year and prepare for something fresh.  We’ll see what comes of it.  More later…

“A fresh start. A new chapter in life waiting to be written. New questions to be asked, embraced, and loved. Answers to be discovered and then lived in this transformative year of delight and self-discovery.”  — Sarah Ban Breathnach
How about you?  Any intentions of making an intention?

Feel-good Friday: stamp of approval

To the man who was born in a suit,

I saw you parked outside the post office today. Photo: d. king

and my fellow Montrealer…we miss you, but we will continue to enjoy your poetic and inspirational music for a lifetime. That is the gift you gave us that will never die.

d. king

A few of my personal favourite lines by Leonard Cohen:the one below is more profound these days…If you read into it, it can speak to the major differences that have torn people apart in relation to the pandemic and politics. So silly.  But let’s end this on a more positive note…

Going to the post office will be a much more pleasurable experience for us Canadians and for those on the receiving end of getting our letters, postcards and packages.

You’re welcome!

 

Inspiring Women

Empowered Women Empower Women

Always standing out from the crowd, Tracy is the one wearing orange coat & yellow sneakers.

Yes; it’s a beautiful thing when women build each other up instead of tearing each other down.

We can all use support more than ever right now.  So when beautiful and successful design diva of the desert Tracy Turco decided to head up an Entrepreneurial Women’s Club of Palm Springs despite her otherwise very busy schedule with a baby to boot… I was very pleased to be included on the list.

I’ve always been drawn to strong successful women.  They’re such an inspiration and each of these incredible women have something unique to offer.  It was a collaboration of getting to know one another, exchanging business cards and finally making plans for the next meetup.

A 1962 mid-century hotel with 12 rooms, The Cheetah Hotel was reinvented by local designer Tracy Turco and her property developer husband Jerry, in 2021. They also own the Art Hotel (most photographed hotel in Palm Springs) & the Tiki hotel with more properties to come including an interactive Mod Museum that will have a roller rink and pizza parlour.  Busy people.

We met on the rooftop of the Flannery Exchange which is located in the heart of Palm Springs’ Uptown Design District.  The building is a mixed-use space providing desert guests and residents the opportunity to work, play, shop, dine, and celebrate. My favorite new coffee shop (Cafe La Jefa) is right there along with new shops and more to follow.

Erika (wearing striped sweater in photo) and husband Mike Flannery are no strangers to hospitality and design.  They also own ACME house company vacation rentals.

The next meeting will be held at a soon to be disclosed local restaurant.

Have a wonderful weekend