Monday Mood: Written Inspiration

Joan Didion

Joan Didion with her typewriter in Brentwood, 1988 (Photograph: Nancy Ellison)

Chance and choice converge to make us who we are, and although we may mistake chance for choice, our choices are the cobblestones, hard and uneven, that pave our destiny. They are ultimately all we can answer for and point to in the architecture of our character. Joan Didion captured this with searing lucidity in defining character as “the willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life” and locating in that willingness the root of self-respect.

The dismal fact is that self-respect has nothing to do with the approval of others — who are, after all, deceived easily enough; has nothing to do with reputation, which, as Rhett Butler told Scarlett O’Hara, is something people with courage can do without.

Self-respect is something that our grandparents, whether or not they had it, knew all about. They had instilled in them, young, a certain discipline, the sense that one lives by doing things one does not particularly want to do, by putting fears and doubts to one side, by weighing immediate comforts against the possibility of larger, even intangible, comforts.

To free us from the expectations of others, to give us back to ourselves – there lies the great, singular power of self-respect. – Joan Didion.

Souce: Brain Pickings.

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Full Article:

https://www.brainpickings.org/2012/05/21/joan-didion-on-self-respect/

 

 

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