Words…relationships

Let’s have some FUN…..and not take life so seriously.relation1

MEN vs WOMEN – some quotes that made me smile:

Buy a ship, name it relation.  Now you have a RELATIONSHIP!

“I was married by a judge.  I should have asked for a jury.” – Groucho Marx

“A man can sleep around, no questions asked, but if a woman makes nineteen or twenty mistakes she’s a tramp.” – Joan Rivers

“Seems to me the basic conflict between men and women, sexually, is that men are like firemen. To men, sex is an emergency, and no matter what we’re doing we can be ready in two minutes. Women, on the other hand, are like fire. They’re very exciting, but the conditions have to be exactly right for it to occur.” – Jerry Seinfeld

According to a recent survey, men say the first thing they notice about women is their eyes. And women say the first thing they notice about men is they’re a bunch of liars. – Jay Leno

I want a man who is kind and understanding. Is that too much to ask of a millionaire? – Zsa Zsa Gabor

You’re 40 and he’s 22. Do you have to marry him? Couldn’t you just adopt him? – Ann Stanley, Forty Carats

“God gave men both a penis and a brain, but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time.” – Robin Williams

Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.” – Albert Einstein

Happy Sunday!

Health MATTERS: the skinny on PROTEIN

 A crash courseprotein1Believe me there’s far too much information so I broke it down as best I could (even though it’s a lot bit longer than my usual posts) from researching a few articles. I think we all know that keeping a balanced diet is really key.

What do I immediately do after a run or workout using weights at the gym?  Go home to make a smoothie with a BIG scoop of *protein powder.  Of course the smoothie is more of a thick milkshake-like consistency with other good stuff like banana, yogurt, frozen wild blueberries (I like it cold), wild green powder or juice, coconut water, flax & chia seeds and a good quality matcha green tea powder (from Japan).  This to me is the Ultimate workout recovery.  I try to drink it as quickly as possible so that the protein will adhere to my muscles ASAP!  Who knows but it feels really healthy, works for most athletes as I am a major athlete (of which I am not) but why not do as they do?

 Because WITHOUT PROTEIN, life as we know it would not be possible.

They’re used to make muscles, tendons, organs and skin.  Proteins are also used to make enzymes, hormones, neurotransmitters and various tiny molecules that serve important functions.

Bottom Line: Protein is a structural molecule assembled out of amino acids, many of which the body can’t produce on its own. Animal foods are usually high in protein, with all the essential amino acids that we need.

If we don’t get enough from the diet, our health and body composition suffers.

However, there are vastly different opinions on how much protein we actually need.     Most official nutrition organizations recommend a fairly modest protein intake.

  • 56 grams per day for the average sedentary man.
  • 46 grams per day for the average sedentary woman.

Although this meager amount may be enough to prevent downright deficiency, studies show that it is far from sufficient to ensure optimal health and body composition.

It turns out that the “right” amount of protein for any one individual depends on many factors… including activity levels, age, muscle mass, physique goals and current state of health.

The best sources of protein are meats, fish, eggs and dairy products. They have all the essential amino acids that your body needs.  There are also some plants that are fairly high in protein, like quinoa, legumes and nuts.

All of this being said, I don’t think there is any need for most people to actually track their protein intake.

If you’re just a healthy person trying to stay healthy, then simply eating quality protein with most of your meals (along with nutritious plant foods) should bring your intake into an optimal range.

If you have a physically demanding job, you walk a lot, run, swim or do any sort of exercise, then you need more protein. Endurance athletes also need quite a bit of protein, about 0.5 – 0.65 grams per pound, or 1.2 – 1.4 grams per kg.

Elderly people also need significantly more protein, up to 50% higher than the DRI, or about 0.45 to 0.6 grams per pound of bodyweight.

What “Grams of Protein” Really Means

This is a very common misunderstanding

When I say “grams of protein” – I mean grams of the macronutrient protein, not grams of a protein containing food like meat or eggs.

An 8 ounce serving of beef weighs 226 grams, but it only contains 61 grams of actual protein. A large egg weighs 46 grams, but it only contains 6 grams of protein.

What About The Average Person (of course we all think we’re all above average)?

If you’re at a healthy weight, you don’t lift weights and you don’t exercise much, then aiming for 0.36 to 0.6 grams per pound (or 0.8 to 1.3 gram per kg) is a reasonable estimate.

This amounts to:

  • 56-91 grams per day for the average male.
  • 46-75 grams per day for the average female.

But given that there is no evidence of harm and significant evidence of benefit, I think it is better for most people to err on the side of more protein rather than less.

Protein and THE ATHLETE – How Much Do You Need?weights1

By **Alexandra Caspero, MA, RD

Whether running sprints, long-distance swimming or lifting weights, athletes expend more energy than the average person and their bodies need additional nutrients to recover from intense physical activity. Protein plays an important role in an athlete’s diet as the nutrient helps repair and strengthen muscle tissue. Recently, high protein diets have become popular among athletes — especially those seeking a leaner, more defined physique. But how much protein is really necessary?

OVERALL DIET

While protein is critical in building muscle mass, more is not necessarily better. Eating large amounts of lean protein will not equate with a toned body.

When determining protein requirements for athletes, it’s important to look at the athlete’s overall diet. During periods of both rest and activity, protein contributes about 10 percent of the total fuel an athlete’s body uses. The remaining fuel used is made up of carbohydrates and fat. Athletes who consume diets adequate in both these nutrients end up using less protein for energy than those who consume a higher protein diet. This means that protein can go toward preserving lean body mass (i.e. that lean physique). So in order to retain muscle, athletes need to ensure they are also meeting needs for carbs and fat, not just protein.

ACTIVITY

Muscle growth happens only when exercise and diet are combined.

For example, research has shown that *timing of protein intake plays a significant role. Eating high-quality protein (such as eggs, dairy or soy) immediately after exercise — either by itself or with a carbohydrate — enhances muscle creation.

Duration and intensity of the activity is also a factor when it comes to protein needs.

Endurance athletes (such as runners, bikers and swimmers) tend to synthesize more protein for fuel while power (or strength) athletes (such as sprinters, weightlifters and CrossFitters) tend to synthesize less protein for fuel but retain more for muscle development.

Because they are building muscle, power athletes require a higher level of protein consumption than endurance athletes. “[Power] athletes’ protein needs are highest during the initial training phases, when muscle gain is largest,” says sports dietitian Kelly Rossi, MS, RD, CSSD. “As any athlete trains more, their body’s efficiency in using protein increases so they may not need as much.”

RECOMMENDATIONS

While protein needs of both endurance and power athletes are greater than that of non-athletes, they’re not as high as commonly perceived.

The Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, Dietitians of Canada and the American College of Sports Medicine recommend the following for power and endurance athletes, based on body weight:

  • Power athletes (strength or speed): 1.2 to 1.7 grams/kilogram a day
  • Endurance athletes: 1.2 to 1.4 grams/kilogram a day

For an adult male athlete, that’s about 84 to 119 grams of protein a day; for adult females about 66 to 94 grams.

By comparison, a sedentary adult male needs about 56 grams of protein a day; for females it’s about 46 grams.

Are POWDERS and SUPPLEMENTS Needed?

*Protein powders and protein supplements are great for convenience, but not to be solely relied on. Whole foods are always best, but with a busy athlete trying to juggle a million things, it is more realistic to provide them with the convenient shake.  It is for added reassurance.

*For the Ultimate protein, greens and fiber in powder form I use and recommend: http://www.ultimatevegan.com/products/

Source of info: http://authoritynutrition.com and http://www.eatright.org

**Alexandra Caspero, MA, RD, is owner of Delicious Knowledge in Sacramento, Calif. She specializes in plant-based diets, sports nutrition, food intolerance and weight management.

How about you?  What form of exercise do you regularly do and do you make a shake the minute you get home from your workout?

 

 

 

 

 

Feel-good Friday – birds of a feather

“Some birds are not meant to be caged, that’s all. Their feathers are too bright, their songs too sweet and wild.

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So you let them go, or when you open the cage to feed them they somehow fly out past you. And the part of you that knows it was wrong to imprison them in the first place rejoices, but still, the place where you live is that much more drab and empty for their departure.” birdcactus

 

- Stephen King, Rita Hayworth and Shawshank Redemption: A Story from Different Seasons.



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Photos: d. king

“In order to see birds it is necessary to become part of the silence” – Robert Lynd

Well said – that is even more true for photographing them.

Beauty biz – the Facial

For many years Optaderm has been my go-to place for facials. 

Products that work in simple packaging.

Products that work in plain packaging.

Okay there was a period of time where I tried other skincare specialists.  They lured me in off the street with their luxurious looking salons and some of their facials were very good but I’ve never been as satisfied as when Elizabeth attends to my skin at Optaderm.  She takes care of business. Hopefully she’ll be there as long as I continue going.

Optaderm will not lure you off the street.  In fact they’re located on the 3rd floor of a medical building.  You have to know about them.  The place is very pristine but not at all fancy.  Just the basics.  If you’re looking for fancy shmancy you must go elsewhere.20141010_170854

During the course of the complete one hour facial, we receive a relaxing aromatherapy massage, thorough deep pore cleansing, skin-smoothing peeling and calming facial masque.  And I always ask for *extractions (most other places will not do this maybe out of fear of messing up). They are not the most pleasant part of the facial but there always seems to be some to get rid of.

skincare line which you can use after the facial if you choose to

skincare line which you can use after the facial if you choose to

Optaderm also sells their own brand of skincare & some makeup (made at their in-house lab) with healthy ingredients like plant extracts, amino acids and vitamins.  They’ll probably give you a few generous size samples to try.  They’re able to sell their goods at a lower price point than  competitors by being a direct supplier to the customer.  You won’t be disappointed.

Optaderm, since 1987 has offered high quality products and one-on-one skin care advice.

http://www.optaderm.com/

*Extractions – meaning tiny (sometimes not so tiny) black & whitehead removal.  That’s all you need to know.

 

 

 

Style: The CLASSICS

You can never go wrong with wearing classics. Things that look as good today as days gone by.  Things like…

LBD - Sophia wears a strapless like no other.

The LBD – Sophia wears a strapless like no other.  But we can give it a try.

The Jean Jacket

The Jean Jacket

For your viewing pleasure here are some of my all-time favorites along with the people wearing them.

The worn-in Leather Jacket

The worn-in Leather Jacket

The Tuxedo

The Tuxedo

The White Shirt (Victoria Beckham)

The White Shirt (Victoria Beckham)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Jennifer Hudson & Kate Hudson (no relation) wear it well.

Jennifer Hudson & Kate Hudson (no relation).

A single-breasted, belted wrap coat is a classic style that flatters curvy girls in all the right places (the belt defines your waist, the diagonal line of the lapels minimizes your bust and the A-line shape skims over your hips).  Kate Hudson is far from voluptuous but shows that a classic long wool coat looks great on everyone.  (If you’re petite, opt for a shorter version so it doesn’t overwhelm your frame). Plus, a good camel coat looks equally chic dressed up or worn with your favorite jeans.

The Cashmere Scarf

The Cashmere Scarf

The Ballet Flats (they don't necessarily have to be Chanel) but these are  Très Chic

The Ballet Flat (they don’t necessarily have to be Chanel) but these are Très Chic

 

Perfect white T & Jeans

Perfect white T & Jeans

The Moto Jacket

The Moto Jacket

The Military

The Military

Of Course...Coco

The LBJ.  Of Course…Coco  

A twist on the Classics can't be all bad.  Love the bag & distressed boots - Chanel.

A twist on the Classics can’t be all bad. Love the bag & distressed boots – both Chanel, Texas style.

A Classic wearing a Classic.....classily & sexily (is that a word?)

A Classic wearing a Classic.….sexy classisism!

More style on Pinterest - http://www.pinterest.com/intrigueimports/style-inspiration-a-passion-for-fashion/

Food – Finding Inspiration

Read. Eat. Drink. A WORTHY COOKBOOK has worked hard to earn a lasting place in your life.book2

I can’t help it.  I’m attracted to a great looking cook book, preferably one that contains great tasting recipes that are relatively easy to follow.  Cooking is an art form through imagination, inventiveness and by personalizing already existing formulas.  Sometimes we create something fabulous by trial and error and other times we need to follow a specific recipe step-by-step. Yes, we can get them from the internet (epicurious anyone?) but I love specialty cook books and especially their covers.  I don’t really want to buy more because I already have a full drawer dedicated to housing my collection. But here are some recent books that caught my eye from a unique shop – Barbara-Jo’s Books to Cooks.  

Romance with Recipes

ROMANCE with RECIPES

It’s hard to pass by without looking in. This store is an epicureans’ delight, where food lovers and cooks of all abilities find inspiration.

Step Inside

The inside is warm and inviting.  Here they host social suppers, book clubs and cooking classes.

Who is Barbara-Jo?

Barbara-jo McIntosh  is an award-winning food professional with over 25 years experience in the food and hospitality industry.

Author of the bestselling Tin Fish Gourmet, Barbara-jo served on the prestigious James Beard Awards cookbook selection committee for six years.  In 2003, Vancouver Magazine honoured her with a lifetime achievement award for her many contributions to the local culinary scene.

In 2004 Barbara-jo published Great Chefs Cook at Barbara-Jo’s. This charming book captures the ambience of forty culinary events featuring celebrated chefs and authors with over 50 recipes contributed from their own cookbooks.

bookIn 2010 Barbara-jo launched french apple press, an independent press whose aim is to publish unique and treasured books for likeminded culinary and book enthusiasts. French apple press released their first book in June 2010, Cooking for Me and Sometimes You; A Parisienne Romance with Recipes by Barbara-jo McIntosh. In her culinary memoir with recipes, Barbara-jo takes readers along with her as she realizes a life-long dream of spending a month living, loving, and cooking in Paris as a true Parisian.20140921_124652

Address: 1740 W 2nd Ave. in Kits, Vancouver.

Photos: d. king                                   For more unique cookbooks go to my Pinterest board at: http://www.pinterest.com/intrigueimports/under-the-covers-attention-grabbing-books/

Art/Abstract – a look at Joan Miró

Joan Miró (1893-1983)

Ballerina II, 1925

Ballerina II, 1925

High up on my trippy wish list is Barcelona.  Not only for fun but to pay a visit to the Fundació Joan Miró and be reminded that life is filled with colour and shape and that the small things in the world are worth noticing and celebrating.

Playful, joyful, energetic and colourful, Joan Miró’s paint language appears very simple – bird, star, sun, moon, figure, colour, surface, and so on. But like the best poets, the artist’s juggling of these elements is sophisticated and playful at the same time. The results are unique, immediately recognizable and vibrant – a delight to behold.miro1

Miró was passionate about art from an early age and after a failed attempt by his family to get him into business, he was allowed to pursue his artistic studies.  His early work was influenced by the Fauve painters and Cubism.  He admired Picasso’s work and eventually left Barcelona to live in Paris where he spent six months of each year, working alongside other artists in relative poverty.  The other half of the year he spent in Spain on the family farm.

BLUE I, II AND III

BLUE I, II AND III

Like his fellow Catalan artist, Salvador Dali, Miró is most closely associated with the surrealist movement started by Andre Breton.  While Dali embraced surrealism wholeheartedly, with  Miró it is more accurate to say that surrealism embraced him.

Constantly experimenting in his work, he was careful never to align himself completely with any one art movement. His take on the world is quirky, humorous, child-like in its depiction of subject-matter yet extremely sophisticated in its ability to comment on life’s experiences.

Dali, flamboyant, attention-seeking, extreme, takes us to the edge with paintings that show us a world that is distorted and disturbing.  Miró’s approach is calmer, more playful.  Always his own person, never interested in playing to the gallery, his work feels focused, centred, stable.  His view of the world is uplifting, fun, life-enhancing.

This one is available at Elan Fine Art Gallery - Vancouver

Available at Elan Fine Art Limited,Vancouver

Above all, Miró  reminds  us how important a sense of humour is in life and his brilliant paintings, sculptures, wall hangings and ceramics give us permission to stop taking ourselves so seriously.

Source: http://www.abstract-art-framed.com/

 


Health MATTERS: Relationships

Good relationships are not just found.  They must be created.

Relationships – Where Fantasy meets Reality:

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The following was written by *Brad King:

We’ve all heard the saying, “You need to love yourself before you can truly love another.” But what does that really mean? To love yourself is to respect yourself, which means you need to learn to respect the vehicle that allows you to love—your body and your mind.

When it comes to respecting your body and your mind, you need to understand that what goes into the vehicle, eventually dictates how efficient that vehicle will be able to perform. In other words, our ability to love with extreme passion is—to a large extent—subject to the way we feel from day to day, and science dictates that we can greatly enhance the way we feel by the way we move, by the way we think and by what we consume.

Regardless of why we feel love—love is… always has been… and always will be the force that drives us as humans. Everything we do in life is for one specific reason: to experience pleasure! And the ultimate pleasure is LOVE. You’ve fallen in love; maybe you’re getting married; now how do you keep your love alive?

Unfortunately as a relationship progresses, quite often the waist line expands. Couples tend to not try as hard, thereby allowing their exercise routine and healthy eating habits to go by the wayside.

As we age, our hormones start to wreck havoc within our bodies and with that comes a whole slew of complications, including: depression, moodiness, fat gain, difficulty sleeping, aching joints, low passion for life affect our love lives. So how do you become happy and healthy for life and maintain the incredible sex life you’ve always enjoyed? Following are my tips on how to feel, act and perform at your very best for life:

  • Have more fun and reduce stress
  • Consume smaller meals at regular intervals throughout the day (every 3-4 hours) to balance blood sugar and hormones
  • Eat organic foods whenever possible, as these foods contain more nutrition and less toxins
  • Smile more
  • Exercise (high intensity, short duration)
  • Dim the lights in the evening
  • Lose the belly
  • Avoid excess caffeine and alcohol, as both can exacerbate the stress response and interrupt sleep
  • Develop a healthy sleep routine: do the same things before you go to bed each night, it will train your body to get ready for sleep

    Brad King

    Brad King

*Brad King, MS, MFS, a nutritional researcher and award winning formulator has been touted as one of the most influential health mentors of our time. He is the author of 10 books, including Fat Wars, Beer Belly Blues and Losing Fat for Life. Visit him on Facebook @ Transforming Health with Brad King or on his website at: http://www.AwakenYourBody.com. – See more at: http://www.bridalfantasy.com/brad-king/#sthash.9Fi1U61d.rVCrNDPE.dpuf

including: How to FEED YOUR METABOLISM TO BURN EXCESS BODY FAT