‘Sweet Promise‘ by blush lingerie Fall/Winter 2013 available in all sizes (large & small) at http://www.intrigueimports.com
“A good bra is like a good man: he’s gotta be good looking, supportive and he’ll never let you down.”
These are the kind of truths that Rebecca, the owner of La Petite Coquette (located in the heart of Greenwich Village, New York City) can throw at you in an everyday conversation. Re-blogged from Garance Doré.
And the thing is after talking, and mostly, trying bras with her, I kind of realized that in spite of all my efforts, my bra knowledge was very limited. It was time to take a lesson in bra fitting, and to ask her a few of the essential questions…
How do you figure out your size? I don’t believe in tape measures because they are not tried and true, it’s basically a gimmick. The most important thing is to go to your local lingerie store and try on bras. You need to give yourself 20-30 minutes to try on a few different styles. There is no standardization in bra sizing. Each manufacturer makes a different size. A C-cup in an American size is very different from a C-cup in a European size. You have to know how the bras fit.
jesus fernandez – ‘Camille’
What to wear when bra shopping? Wear a simple a t-shirt or tank top. If you’re looking for a t-shirt bra, it should look like you’re not wearing anything at all, it should be smooth, round and high. You don’t need to bring multiple tops. You know when it fits, when it’s comfortable.
How do you know the bra fits? The middle part of the bra should go flat against your sternum and the band should be in the middle of the back. You shouldn’t have spillage coming out. Always have your bra on the first hook, it should fit snug on your back so you’ll have places to go when it stretches out. The straps should not dig into your shoulder and they should fit snug.
How often should you be buying new bras? Bras always wear out but it’s the way you take care of them. If you hand wash and air dry them, they will always last much longer. Most women, I find, wear the same bra every single day. You have to rotate your bras. Don’t wear the same bra twice in a row– you sweat and the sides, back and straps stretch out.
What should you have in your bra wardrobe? Four to five bras for during the week, when you wear your work clothing, when you want your clothes to be smooth and fitting you well. You should have 3 or 4 sexy ones for when you want to go out at night or you are entertaining your man for seduction. Two strapless bras, one black and one nude (when you buy a strapless bra it should fit very, very snug, you can even go one size down sometimes).
jesus fernandez – ‘chica’ mujeres collection.
*Shopping online for a bra or bra/panty set can sometimes be a challenge but plenty of women do. There’s even a ‘panties by post’ website. The trick is that you either know your standard size & place the order or spend a few extra minutes checking out your size from the sizing chart for each manufacturer on the website you’re placing the order from (as each company is different). The difference in shopping for a bra online is that many times you’ll come across something extra special (artisan or vintage details) that you won’t be able to find in a department store or a lingerie boutique because they’re not your standard design.
Best brands for… Small or Average size Chests: Timpa, Eberjey, Chantelle, jesus fernandez, Simone Perele, blush. Large Chests: Freya, Chantelle, Simone Perele, Prima Donna, blush. Petite: Wacoal, Lula Lu Petites, jesus fernandez
jesus fernandez – (made by passionate artisans in Buenos Aires is very special). Available in North America online at – http://www.IntrigueImports.com
Love Sushi?Love Salad? The combination of both makes for a very tasty dish – even for a light main course for four, or a starter for six. Make sure to get fresh sushi grade Ahi Tuna.Ahi Tuna – 1 lb.
Two Haas Avocados
A mix of baby lettuces (I used arugula, swiss chard, kale & spinach)
Campari tomatoes (if you can find sweet brown tomatoes, use them)
Green Onion, chopped
Toasted sesame seeds
Sliced ginger in the jar (like they serve at all Japanese restaurants but you can buy at many supermarkets now)
Sweet sesame seaweed topping – optional
Wasabi Mayonnaise (buy it or better still, make it yourself by mixing equal amounts of wasabi + mayo)
Mix some wasabi (to taste) in a small bowl with a bit of lemon juice, reduced sodium soy sauce, sesame chilli oil & a bit of fresh grated ginger (I also put a bit of sake but this is optional). Pat on both sides of tuna. Set aside.
Slice Avocados. Mix up the salad ingredients & make a dressing (your choice as long as it’s light). Mine was canola oil, tahini (made from sesame seeds), apple cider vinegar, light soy sauce, lemon juice, garlic, sea salt, chilli flakes.
You can choose to grill tuna on a barbeque, do it over a very hot stovetop or use a George Foreman grill (spray oil on both sides so it doesn’t stick). For stovetop, make sure to oil your pan with a bit of sesame oil & then sear the tuna on all sides (turning over once). It should be rare in the middle. Then cut it into ¼ in slices.
Arrange each plate with salad in the middle & surround the plate with a slice of avocado, then tuna & a piece of ginger. Sprinkle top of salad with the crunchy seaweed topping.
Drizzle wasabi mayo over tuna slices & serve.
As a side: try smoky sea salted corn on the cob. You can buy the smoked sea salt (very good on buttered corn or steak) at any specialty store.
Just another reason why I LOVE NEW YORK! Can you Guess another?
Anna Nicole Smith secured a contract to replace supermodel Claudia Schiffer in 1993 as the face of Guess. I loved those ads & Guessjeans were super popular. Everyone wanted a pair.
In her brief life, Playboy Playmate Anna Nicole Smith was better known for her physical (double D) and financial (billionaire by marriage) assets than for her acting accomplishments (Naked Gun 33 ½ ). Although the struggles with her weight and substance abuse overshadowed the last years of her life, this image from Smith’s Guess campaign ( I remember them well) will remind you of how beautiful she was. But in 2011, four years after Smith’s death at 39, the composer Mark-Anthony Turnage and the librettist Richard Thomas (JerrySpringer, The Opera) gave the prima donna a stage. I can’t believe I missed that SOAP opera!
Their new opera, Anna Nicole, arrives at the Brooklyn Academy of Music (BAM) on September 17 (through September 28), following a sold-out run at London’s Royal Opera House. “There was never a train crash between the institution and the subject,” says director Richard Jones, of the production’s Opera House origin. For BAM, Jones swapped the British cast for an American one, starring Sarah Joy Miller as the titular lead. Characteristics as varied as the oil tycoon J. HowardMarshall II (Smith’s late husband, 63 years her senior) and a troupe of sad flat-chested women sprinkle the saucy two-hour work.
Smith’s opening line: “I WANT TO BLOW YOU ALL, BLOW YOU ALL……a kiss!”
Although the outsize mix of boobs and bel canto is said to be wildly funny, when a menacing chorus of cameras closes in on our troubled heroine, the hilarity ends.
But the story might not be over just yet – according to some reports, Smith’s estate is considering legal action against the producers, calling the show ‘sleazy’ and complaining that the family were not consulted. Photo Reuters.
Sadly; I guess you can say that Anna Nicole did end up blowing it!
“Become a good noticer. Pay attention to the feelings, hunches, and intuitions that flood your life each day. If you do, you will see that premonitions are not rare, but a natural part of our lives.” – Larry Dossey, The Power of Premonitions.
“I was smoking a huge amount and having real bad premonitions and then I got this role where the guy dies of cancer. The film P.S. I Love You made me contemplate death and realize I was playing Russian roulette with my health. I’ve since stopped smoking” – Gerard Butler
On INTUITION:
“God gave women intuition and femininity. Used properly, the combination easily jumbles the brain of any man I’ve ever met.” – Farrah Fawcett
“All great men are gifted with intuition. They know without reasoning or analysis, what they need to know.” – Alexis Carrel
On Instinct:
“The very essence of instinct is that it’s followed independently of reason.” Charles Darwin
On Deja vu:
“Deja Vu is when God thinks something is so funny, that he has to rewind it to show it to his friends.” – Unknown
I went to a fancy french restaurant called “Deja Vu.” The headwaiter said, “Don’t I know you?” – Rod Schmidt
Tell me you’ve never had that feeling of….”I knew that was about to happen!”
Feels strange, or amazing or sad (depending) when what you were thinking or dreaming of actually comes true. That’s what this post is about – PREMONITIONS. Meaning – knowing what’s about to happen. Is it the same thing as INTUITION? Not exactly. Or is it like Deja vu? “I’ve heard that before.” Intuition may be based on past experiences and generalization, more than likely formed by your sub-consciousness, while a premonition is seeing what happens before it happens (what REAL psychics use). May occur in dreams. Often may feel like de ja vu: the feeling that something has already happened. May be because of a premonition or you may have actually been in a similar situation. Then there’s instinct: an inherent feeling of how one should deal in certain situations based on evolution (protecting oneself by curling into a ball for example). If only we had the intuition of….
BILL GATES: “Sometimes, you have to rely on intuition.” OPRAH WINFREY: “My business skills have come from being guided by my inner self — my intuition.” DONALD TRUMP: “I’ve built a multi-billion empire by using my intuition.”
My own intuition says what’s wrong with me! What if we were all like them? What a wonderful world that would be – or rather, would we all be fighting over real estate & who takes over what? We all have the capability of having meaningful premonitions that we should pay more attention to. Now, for the first time in history, we can use “premonition” and “science” in the same sentence. How does that work?
Larry Dossey, MD, author of The Power of Premonitions gives us the “heads up.”
“Premonition” literally means “forewarning.” Premonitions are a warning about something just around the corner, something that is usually unpleasant. It may be a health crisis, a death in the family, or a national disaster. But premonitions come in all flavors. Sometimes they provide information about positive, pleasant happenings that lie ahead — a job promotion, where the last remaining parking place is, or, in some instances, the winning lottery numbers (but don’t bank on that one).
The main thing is not to try too hard. Premonitions usually come unbidden. They largely “do” us; we don’t “do” them. So the trick is to invite them, not compel them, into your life. First, simply realize that these experiences are extremely common, and that it’s likely that you will experience them.
The Science of Premonitions
Can we glimpse the future? Is there any truth to people’s belief in premonitions? Such provocative questions have largely been ignored by scientists, many of whom argue that claims of precognition can be completely explained away as superstition or delusion. But a small group of scientists continue to tackle these questions head on.
In a laboratory at the Institute of Noetic Sciences (IONS) in Northern California, psychologist Dean Radin approaches human experience with an open mind and experimental rigor. In a series of experiments that Radin describes as “presentiment,” participants are invited to see and feel into the future.
Sitting in a quiet, electromagnetically shielded room, Radin first measures the participants’ physiology. Using electrodes on their hands to study their autonomic nervous system, the curious scientist then looks to see how the experimental participants respond to emotional and calm pictures that are presented on a computer monitor in a random sequence. After each picture, the computer screen goes blank before the next picture is presented. As predicted, when participants see an emotional picture, their physiology shows more arousal than after the calm pictures. This is standard science. But more interesting to Radin and his colleagues is what happens to the physiology of the participants before they see the pictures. According to Radin, their physiology actually appears to anticipate the emotional stimuli up to five seconds before they see the emotional pictures. These intriguing findings have found support in other laboratories across the United States and Europe. Spirituality and Health Magazine
Further, Larry Dossey, M.D. has this to say (taken from his website):
“I’m not asking you to take anything in this book on blind faith, but to openyourselfup to the possibility of premonitions and the evidence supporting them. Listen to the stories people tell. Explore the research that demonstrates our capacity to sense the future. Ponder the implications of mind outside of time. Invite premonitions into your life and see what happens. If you do so humbly and reverently, your life will likely become more premonition-prone, and you may touch that exquisite, infinite realm to which premonitions, now as always, are a door.”
I have a feeling (call it intuition/premonition) that this book will do very well.
FRUCTIS TRIPLE NUTRITION “Miracle Dry Oil” by Garnier
Not “just” another product for the bathroom shelf – although I was a bit skeptical. Take it for what it is:
A miracle multi-use dry oil enriched with olive, avocado and almond oils that seems to deliver rapid nourishment to hydrate dry hair and skin without the oiliness. A lot of bang for your buck – it only costs about $6.00.
Perfect for traveling as it comes in a 5 fl oz. (150 ml) plastic spray bottle. It smells really nice (a bit floral + bit fruity) but it’s light and not overpowering. I already use an oil for face but for dry areas it seems to work & sinks right in. Do not spray directly on face – spray onto your palm first & use sparingly. For legs & arms it absorbs great.
Haven’t tried it on my hair yet but it probably works as well as the Moroccan oil I have. In any event for the price it’s definitely worth trying. Wouldn’t you agree?
Bio-Oil –the true “Miracle” Oil?
Bio‑Oil has won 135 skincare awards and has become the No.1 selling scar and stretch mark product in 16 countries since its global launch in 2002.
We’ll see as I’ve been testing it out for about a month now on my knees (which were badly scraped from a fall last summer). It seems to have helped to reduce the scars which now appear more faint. It would have helped more to use it immediately after but better late than never.
The *Bio‑Oil formulation is a combination of plant extracts and vitamins suspended in an oil base. It contains the breakthrough ingredient PurCellin Oil™, which changes the formulation’s overall consistency, making it light and non-greasy.
*You can buy this product at Costco too (comes in a two-pack, one large & one regular size) which will last you a lifetime – even if you live to be 200.
I love wearing skirts for Fall. It’s more easy to throw on a pair of pants or jeans when it starts to get chilly outside, but there’s something a little more special about dressing up a skirt with leggings & the right pair of boots for day or a great stocking (or bare leg) for night . What do you think?
Here are some of the latest for Fall/Winter 2013:
Floral lace skirt, only $54, asos.com
The Lace Midi
Keep the rest of your outfit slim and simple and let this embellished, bell-shaped style be your statement.
A lace skirt is so pretty no matter what length – straight or flare. Of course you can’t make the mistake of wearing a lace top with it – it would be overkill & could also look cheap.
The Box-Pleat Mini
Wool skirt, $398, Blue Label, ralphlauren.com
Extra-wide panels take this girlish silhouette from prep school to cuttingedge. The Fit: A high-waisted look is slimming; a tailored button-down or turtleneck balances the fullness below.
I love how they paired this Ralph Lauren number with a wide belt & booties in same color. Also the midnight stockings & turtleneck give it added polish.
The Kick Flare
Tulle skirt, $295, Jean Paul Gaultier, bloomingdales.com
Give your pencil skirt a rest (but not for long) and wear this equally tailored – but way more fashion-forward style to the office instead. Keep the polished look going with something unfussy, like a boxy crew neck sweater.
This style reminds me a bit of the tulip skirt (also in style). I’m happy because I hung on to a nice silk DKNY…..just in case.
It’s impossible not to feel put-together wearing this beautifully textured, ‘50’s-inspired cut. Keep it tighter on top with something like this sweater: a subdued fitted knit that feels appropriately classic. The Shoes: enhance the ladylike vibe with a sweet Mary Jane or pump in timeless black. Flats will make it look too dowdy.
ASOS skirt
Take the A-LINE
HOW TO WEAR IT
This classic skirt flaunts an early-’60s attitude, and the polished daytime look is ever-appropriate. But A-line obsession is rooted in the universally flattering, hip-and-thigh disguising shape that lets us have our cake and eat it too. And for that, it will always have a place in our closet.
There’s a prim, clean-scrubbed vibe to these skirts. So add a fitted little jacket or a basic belt, and carry a structured bag. And while it may be tempting to slip on a pair of flats, these skirts, especially those that fall below the knee, beg for the height of a ladylike heel.
(left to right) Michael Kors, Lanvin, Dolce & Gabbana, Victoria Beckham.
Pencil Skirts,especially in Leather are always so sleek and sophisticated.
from images
I love, love, love straight pencil skirts. This look works on all ages but especially good for older women because it’s so classic. Some women feel too curvy for this look, but embrace curves if you have them. They can work really well with a pencil skirt— think Mad Men (I’ve never even watched the show but know the look). This is an investment piece.
How to style it: This is such a versatile style whether you wear a button down shirt or cardigan over top. A crisp white tucked-in shirt is super classic and can be taken from day into night by adding bold jewellery and a red lip. Pair with open-toe or strappy shoes and don’t forget – ADDitude! Pencil me IN!
This “so simple it’s crazy” chicken dish is pure comfort food, baked to perfection if you like it juicy on the inside and crispy on the outside.
I used bone-in chicken thighs but you can use breasts, drumsticks or a mix thereof. Cooking with the bone-in tends to give it more flavour & helps retain moisture. If you like Southern fried, it tastes similar but without the breading & excess fat – a healthy alternative.
Place chicken on a cookie sheet lined with parchment paper.
Sprinkle chicken generously with garlic salt, dehydrated chopped onion (or onion salt) + white pepper on both sides. Rub it in, then put bay leaves over top. Pour fresh lemon juice & a little bit of extra-virgin olive oil on top & cover with thinly sliced lemons. Bake at 325 F for about 1 ½ – 2 hrs. or until crispy on the outside. Turn oven off & leave for up to ½ longer.
Inspiration for this delicious recipe came from a renowned urban diner in Chicago, namely the “White Palace Grill.” There are Diners and then there are Diners!
Open since 1939, The White Palace Grill might be the finest example of an urban diner in Chicago or anywhere else for that matter. It has managed to stick around while other businesses have come and gone.
In addition to an extensive lunch and dinner menu, the White Palace Grill serves up eggs practically any way you can think of 24 hours a day. The diner attracts city workers, policemen, firemen, business people, college students, politicians, the after hours club crowd and just about anybody. The mix of people is terrific and diverse. It is an urban oasis.
Just as a picture tells a story (if the walls could describe every patron who has walked into the place they could write a book), the White Palace Grill is a key part of Chicago history. If you need a break from “caramelized onions”, “infused” sauces and names of food you can’t pronounce then go over anytime 24 hours a day 365 days a year.
Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened –Anatole France
Just the other day one of my dearest friends in the whole wide world lost her #1 best friend & dog Milo, after 13 loving years. This is for you, my SS#1 (between us) girlfriend! You were the bestest mom ever + Milo was one very lucky dog! Thinking of you…..
Pets are beloved members of the family and not “just a dog” or “just a cat.” When they die a part of us dies too and we feel a significant, even traumatic loss, given the intense bond most of us share with them. It’s natural to feel devastated by feelings of grief and sadness when a pet dies but never feel guilty or ashamed about grieving for an animal friend.
If you lived alone and the pet was your only companion, coming to terms with his loss can be even harder. If you were unable to afford expensive veterinary treatment to prolong the life of your pet you may even feel a profound sense of guilt. Like grief for humans, grief for animal companions can only be dealt with over time, but there are healthy ways to cope with the pain. Here are some suggestions:
Don’t let anyone tell you how to feel, and don’t tell yourself how to feel either. Your grief is your own, and no one else can tell you when it’s time to “move on” or “get over it.” Let yourself feel whatever you feel without embarrassment or judgment.
Create a legacy: Preparing a memorial, planting a tree in memory of your pet, compiling a photo album or scrapbook, or otherwise sharing the memories you enjoyed with your pet, can create a legacy to celebrate the life of your animal companion.
Look after yourself: The stress of losing a pet can quickly deplete your energy and emotional reserves. Looking after your physical and emotional needs will help you get through this difficult time. Eat a healthy diet, get plenty of sleep, and exercise regularly to release endorphins and help boost your mood.
If you have other pets: try to maintain your normal routine. Surviving pets can also experience loss when a pet dies, or they may become distressed by your sorrow. Maintaining their daily routines, or even increasing exercise and play times, will not only benefit the surviving pets buy may also help to elevate your outlook too.
Remembering Milo
He was just THE BOY
Not a dog toy.
He was a human friend.
Brilliant & funny
Right to the end.
Milo was part of my Heart
That is now gone, but will never
be forgotten.
He brought us such Joy. Such happiness…
His Daddy will miss his co-pilot on drives across the country.
His Mommy. I’ll just miss My BOY.
– Angela Pucci
I was there 2 yrs. ago when Angie took this pic in Florida.
For Angie….remember it’s always better to have loved & lost an animal than never to have loved one at all.
Don’t Cry for Me When I’m Gone
So, though I give you all my heart
The time will come when we must depart
But all around you, you will see
Creatures that speak to you of me;
A tired horse, a hunted thing
A sparrow with a broken wing…
Pity – and help (I know you will)
And somehow, I will be with you still;
And I shall know, although I’m gone
The love I gave you lingers on.
– Anonymous-
Separate Lifetimes
We who choose to surround ourselves with lives even more temporary than our own,
Live within a fragile circle, easily and often breached.
Unable to accept its awful gaps, we would still live no other way.
We cherish memory as the only certain immortality, never fully understanding the necessary plan….
Writing has laws of perspective, of light and shade just as painting does, or music. If you are born knowing them, fine. If not, learn them. Then rearrange the rules to suit yourself – TrumanCapote
Better than a thousand holy words, is one word that brings peace – Buddha
And by the way, everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise. The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt. ~Sylvia Plath
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