Feel-good Friday: mingle, shop, eat, drink, dance, love

When it rains, it pours…literally in Vancouver

Blue Tango Project
Blue Tango Project

It’s never a good idea to double book appointments but you might have to if it means going to the opening of a swanky USA new to Canada flagship downtown department store called Nordstrom (don’t worry Holt Renfrew, we’ll still see you once in a while) and another event featuring Vancouver’s top chefs and award-winning winemakers joining forces to create mouth-watering plates perfectly paired with delicious, complex BC wines. Decisions, decisions. I try not to spread myself too thin but such is life! 

Should I take shooter before or after shoe shopping?
Should I take a shooter before or after shoe shopping? Nordstrom Vancouver

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I really like this wine glass holder
Red Shoe at The View – my kind of wine glass holder
A tasting pairing
A tasty pairing – one of many

Then there’s music and Argentine tango combined with soulful singing, haunting harmonica, and fabulous flautist (flute by lovely Astrid Sars– she produced this show).  Last night at the Orpheum Annex (with an amazing sound system by the way) I witnessed a collaboration between Argentine Latin Grammy nominee María Volonté on guitar and vocals, and California harmonica player Kevin Carrel Footer. They call themselves the Blue Tango Project and they celebrate the deep spiritual bond where tango and the blues merge together.  Their on tour one-stop in Vancouver show featured original songs mixed with oldies by Louis Armstrong & Leonard Cohen while scenes of Buenos Aires played on a projector in the background and an elegant tango couple (Deborah & Santiago I think they only have first names) appeared in a few sets.  I’ve been to Buenos Aires twice so this was definitely tango magic!  I’m looking to take a few privates soon….to brush up so to speak.

María Volonté
María Volonté

Last but certainly not least, Jack is Back!  I don’t know for how long exactly but my little Jack Russell terrorior is staying and playing with me.

uh ohh!
uh ohh….I smell trouble!


It should be a good long weekend.

 XO LOVE XO  

the Loving Spoonful(s)
the Loving Spoonful(s)

ChefmeetsBCGrape: I was too busy mingling and sampling to take many photos but the event was FABulous.



contemplating what filters through

INSTAGRAM – welcome to our picture perfect world!

I call it INSTAGRAMification because everyone looks happy, lives well, eats well and plays well.

Life can be so Idyllic!
Life can be so Idyllic!  #nofilters  #lifeisgood  #readytopicnic         photo: d. king

The popular phone app gives us leeway to play with our photos using different filters to brighten or diffuse and colour our world a whole lot brighter (but make sure to use hashtag #no filters if not using any, so it appears even better).  Our world can actually be falling apart but you’d never know it by the photos we choose to post. We’re always busy, popular, travelling to exotic locales or at least eating in exotic restaurants and we want you to see what we’re having for dinner….again!  Yeah I know, I’m guilty of this too.

I drank champagne and ate oysters all summer long
I drank champagne and ate oysters all summer long #nofilters
The wine I drink comes with cute labels. I won't drink lie it otherwise.
The wine I drink comes with cute labels. I won’t drink it otherwise. #bigfatlie

If you think about it for a moment why would we want anyone to see us at our worst? Why not create a fantasy world of perfection?

I wonder if it would make us feel happier or depressed to look at other people’s photos of really plain food (is there such a thing?), waking up first thing in the morning (unless you’re Angelina Jolie who I’m sure never has a bad looking day), sick in bed or just getting in your car to go to work (boooring!).

I only swim in salt water pools...a lot by the way #nofilters #havingwaytoomuchfun
I only swim in salt water pools...a lot by the way  #wishIusedafilter  #havingwaytoomuchfun

Maybe we should try it? 

Okay, you go first!  Nahhh…forget it. Let’s keep up the fantasies, the world is a tough enough place as it is (for most of us). Let’s keep up appearances and show everyone the best of our little world! XO

While I take another bubble bath...with a bubbly in hand. Wait a sec...that's not even me - it's my dog! Get outta the tub.
While I get ready for a bubble bath…with bubbly in hand. Wait a sec…that’s not even me – it’s my dog! #bigmistake

Do you believe in signs?

A few days after my aunt passed away I started reminiscing about my mom, my dad, my grandparents and especially my aunt because it was so fresh.  I spoke with my uncle and my cousins because I was feeling gloomy and missing them, wishing we were closer in proximity.  
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Then I went upstairs and two beautiful little hummingbirds showed up on my deck nowhere near the feeder.  I love hummingbirds and have had some unusual incidences involving them so I took it as a sign.  Without a word of a lie they came right up to me, flapping their wings and looking at me.  Then they left but decided to come right back and do it again.  Couldn’t believe it so I called my cousin Liz right away to share the news – I think it was your mom and mine telling us everything will be okay.

But then it occured to me what they were probably really saying was “please put some vodka in that goddamn feeder so we can party!!”  bird2

Meaning: When the hummingbird shows up in your life, it may be an invitation to flex your path, perhaps even bending backward or forward, in order to accommodate life’s circumstances. You may be required to adapt to a situation that is a bit more demanding than usual.

I took this photo in Palm Canyon, California

The hummingbird (as a spirit animal) symbolizes the enjoyment of life and lightness of being. They help to lift up negativity wherever it creeps in and express love more fully in their daily endeavors. This fascinating bird is capable of the most amazing feats despite its small size, such as traveling great distances or being able to fly backwards. By affinity with the hummingbird, those who witness this bird may be encouraged to develop their adaptability and resiliency while keeping a playful and optimistic outlook.

Well I immediately felt better during and right after seeing them!bird4

What about you?  Do you believe in signs?


For fun take the quiz at link below to find out what your spirit animal is.  

http://www.spiritanimal.info/spirit-animal-quiz/

Photos: (with flower – spirit animal info. website)  The rest are mine taken in Palm Canyon, California.

Feel-good Friday: Obsessions

Some things I’ve been obsessed with on a recent road trip (and it has nothing to do with fashion).  Things like:

These Bunnies:

I think she's a bit weird
“I think she’s a bit weird and that dog….he thinks we’re squirrels!”

Bambi:

“Oh, not the paparazzi again. Please…no more photos!”

This place (Sanderella in the cute little town of New Denver, Slocan Lake – Kootenays) where Jia Jia is patiently waiting outside for me.  I love their bistro bottle cap stools & table. The shop is adorable with lots of eye candy including real candy.

We're not in Paris
We’re nowhere near Paris – not even Paris, Texas or Paris, Ontario (did you even know there was a Paris in Ontario?  It’s apparently considered the prettiest town in Canada but I cannot attest to that in a farm community and they have gourmet cheese).  See, you learn something new every day.

The Homemade Gelato at Sanderella:

especially the coconut cream
especially the coconut cream pie gelato (but that’s because I love coconut cream pie – my mom used to make the best)
This dog
This dog – she has a sweet temperament similar to Jia Jia.

Good Bites: I would be happy to trade in potato chips for these delicious farmer grown carrot chips. You can’t eat just a few. Between this and the Wasabi roasted Seaweed, I will have the most healthy snacks.20150821_113425

then there’s CHOCOLATE (but I’ve always been obsessed with chocolate). The thing about Easter I like the most is the chocolate covered bunnies.  I like to bite the heads off first.

Especially these chocolate covered black licorice pieces - can it get any better?
Chocolate covered black licorice – can it get any better? Yes, what about red?

I’m afraid I have OCD:

Yeah, I'm OCD!
Yes, for sure I do.  I’m in love with Jennifer’s Chocolates in Nakusp.  Total Joy!

Have a great long weekend and try to refrain from eating too much chocolate.  But how much is too much?

New Rules: don’t forget that after Labour day you can still wear white.  How much is too much?…when you blind people wearing too white a white!

Photos: d. king

Feel-good Friday: people are talking…

books and mindless chatter.  When you don’t want to take life too seriously…book1

Girls always want to have FUN

Talk is a hilariously irreverent and racy testament to dialogue: the gossip, questioning, analysis, arguments, and revelations that make up our closest friendships. It’s the summer of 1965 and Emily, Vincent, and Marsha are at the beach. All three are ambitious and artistic; all are hovering around thirty; and all are deeply and mercilessly invested in analyzing themselves and everyone around them. The friends discuss sex, shrinks, psychedelics, sculpture, and S and M in an ongoing dialogue where anything goes and no topic is off limits. Talk is the result of these conversations, recorded by Linda Rosenkrantz and transformed into a novel whose form and content put it well ahead of its time. Controversial upon its first publication in 1968, Talk remains fresh, lascivious, and laugh-out-loud funny nearly fifty years later. nyrb (New York Book Review).

This book makes total sense
I love fiction so this book makes total sense – read and learn!

Amanda Brooks tells us all about her twenty years in fashion, from being a it-girl, to an assistant to Patrick Demarchelier, to fashion director at Barney’s.  This book is honest, simple, personal, fun, and it answers lots of questions we’ve all asked about the fashion world.

And lastly….

Even in Vancouver?
Even in Vancouver?  I don’t think Parisians wear fleece.

Summer Reads: summer is not completely over yet, and what better way to pass the time at the beach but with one of these mindless stylish books.

Maybe I’ll write a book after all.

Food: chop, chop, slice and dice!

Here are some basic professional techniques on how to correctly slice, dice, and chop Vegetables and Herbs by hand (even without the help of a slap chopper) from a real pro. chop1chop3

The pro being someone by the name of Martha, not me.  God knows I’m always slicing and dicing and I’m very lucky to have never chopped off my fingers before now.  I’ve been scolded about not following the correct guidelines (maybe being left handed has something to do with it) so how about going by these simple rules.

The most important being:

Always use a sharp chef’s knife, and tuck under the fingertips (oops) holding the food to keep them from getting nicked.

For julienne or very small dice, begin by slicing a vegetable very thinly lengthwise. To make julienne, stack several thin slices on top of each other, and slice them into matchsticks; to dice, gather the matchsticks together and chop them into equal pieces.

Chiffonade” refers to very thin strips of lettuce or herbs, like these basil leaves. Stack several leaves, with the largest on the bottom. Roll them up, and thinly slice them from one end of the roll to the other.chop2

The best way to chop an onion is to start by cutting it in half from top to bottom; then place the cut halves, flat side down, on a work surface, and slice off the stem ends. Remove the skin, and make vertical cuts lengthwise without cutting through the root end, which holds the onion together as you work. Make a few horizontal cuts from the cut edge toward the root end, then chop across the onion to make cubes.

KITCHEN AID:

I’m one of those people who have kitchen helpers. Unfortunately I don’t have a kitchen staff, but products to help make the process of cooking easier.  Things like a food processor with all the attachments which I rarely use because then you have to clean the darn thing, a Starfrit Mandoline to help slice, julienne, grate and shred but it’s messy so I used it like once.  I have an avocado slicer but the avocado usually gets stuck in it, a melon-baller but I rarely buy melons and when I do I forget that I have one.  Then there’s the George Foreman grill which makes great grilled cheese sandwiches that I used a couple of times before becoming too lazy to take it out and so I end up using a cast iron (flipping the bread and pressing it flat with a spatula – but you don’t get the grill marks). Forget about the waffle maker (this is the most useless gift by the way) because the mix spills out of the sides all over the counter, and the Jack Lalanne juicer makes nice juice but the pulp (which is the best thing for you) separates from the juice.  That recipe book that tells you how to use the pulp? Believe me, I tried using the pulp in muffins, etc. It might be good for you but it certainly does nothing to improve the taste. The slow cooker can be a great helper when you can get it together to figure out what you want to put in it and No, you can’t just throw anything in it and expect dinner in 8 hours. Now they come with a faster time slot, but isn’t the idea to s l o o w w w l  y cook your dinner?

So that leaves: my vitamix which I mostly use to make amazing smoothies and it’s super easy to clean, a hand held mixer (now why is it I do not have a real kitchen aid mixer to help speed up baking?? – Oh, I don’t have any more room on the counter that’s why), a toaster (the best thing for making toast if you have one with wide enough slots – it’s one of the best inventions of all time),  a microwave (for warming up leftovers), an electric braun masher (best mashed potatoes), and a variety of easy hand held gadgets to help peel and grate (I love my Ikea graters) and scoop ice cream with.

What about you?  Which of your kitchen appliances/doodads do you tend to use the most?

Source: every great chef and Martha Stewart Living (for guidelines & photos)

Feel-good Friday: lucky dogs!

My therapist has fur and four legs and all I have to do is feed him.

Four dogs, Three nights, Two locations, One great little adventure!

Jack (jack russell), Jia Jia (sheltie) & Max (blue heeler) on Piers Island
Jack (jack russell), Jia Jia (sheltie) & Max (blue heeler) on Piers Island   Photo: d king
Taylor (1 1/2 yr. old Border Collie) & Jia Jia - Prospect Lake.
Taylor (1 1/2 yr. old Border Collie) & Jia Jia – at Prospect Lake just getting to know each other
Dogs enjoying the freedom to run around Piers Island
Dogs enjoying the freedom to run around – Piers Island.  It’s always an enjoyable time with these fellows.  Photo: Mel d’Souza
Jack enjoying the view from his living room - waiting for the boat to arrive with more supplies
Jack enjoys the view from his living room – waiting for the boat to arrive with more goodies. Now he’s just getting over being stung on his behind by a wasp, poor thing.  He might have sat on it.    Photo: d king
Me & my posse
My posse & me at the dog park which is basically the whole island.  Max blends in with the rocks so well that we can only tell it’s him when he sticks out his tongue.  Photo: Mel d’Souza

It’s a Ruff Life

Reflections
“I hope Jack can’t swim”     Photo: d king

Have a great weekend with your posse!

A look at Jack & Jia Jia on Pinterest:

Link to dog park picnic with Didi (almost one year ago):

 https://girlwhowouldbeking.com/2014/09/11/feel-good-friday-picnic-in-the-park/

style: poolside

I’m invited to a pool party this month… 

Me Reese Witherspoon
Me Reese Witherspoon from google images

Finally I’ll get to wear my Trina Turk tankini from Palm Springs.  It’s exactly the kind of piece I’d wear for a party – not an everyday bathing suit.   I’m taking a clue from these world famous pools and what women wear when either swimming or lounging at them.

Here are the 10 CHICEST SWIM DESTINATIONS and ideas for what to wear on your visit. Whether you hang out in The Joule’s rooftop cantilevered pool in Dallas or travel to Bali to swim among the treetops, you can be certain that these will outdo your standard midday dip.

Bondi Icebergs Club - Bondi, Australia
Bondi Icebergs Club – Bondi, Australia
Hanging Gardens Ubud - Bali, Indonesia
Hanging Gardens Ubud – Bali, Indonesia
San Alfonso del Mar - Valparaiso, Chile
San Alfonso del Mar – Valparaiso, Chile
Grace Santorini - Thira, Greece
Grace Santorini – Thira, Greece
Hotel Molitor, Paris
Hotel Molitor, Paris
The Standard Hotel & Spa, Miami Beach
The Standard Hotel & Spa, Miami Beach
The McCarren Hotel & Spa - Brooklyn, New York
The McCarren Hotel & Spa – Brooklyn, New York
The Beverly Hills Hotel - Los Angeles, California
The Beverly Hills Hotel – Los Angeles, California
The Four-Seasons Hualalai at historic Ka-upulehu, Kailua-Kona, Hawaii
The Four-Seasons Hualalai at historic Ka-upulehu, Kailua-Kona, Hawaii
The Joule - Dallas, Texas
The Joule – Dallas, Texas

Source: style.com for story and photos

Photos: various – Net-a-Porter, Getty Images (Beverly Hills pool photo) and respective hotels.

Which is your pool style?

While I like them all, I gravitate more towards Paris and Beverly Hills (for the love of stripes) & Hawaii.  But I love the lingerie inspired Texas two-piece.

Feel-good Friday: Playful Pink Piano

Move over Elton John…

It’s been a long time since I’ve played piano (if that’s what you can call it) so imagine my joy to see this strategically placed pink piano on my walk over the bridge…  just had to plant myself down for a few minutes, enjoy the view and try to come up with a tune.feelgoodpiano1

?Well at least I tried!  I think the Red piano in Vegas performs better.

Photos: Lisa King