beauty: Anti anti-aging!

Are you as tired as I am of hearing all the buzz surrounding anti-aging marketing?

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All the advertising in magazines, newspapers and the internet implies that most of us are not content to imagesage gracefully.

While this advertising is aimed at women primarily, lots of men are paying attention too, but I find the ads are misleading. No product on earth should make these claims unless they can actually back it up with proven research (without those cheesy re-touched before & after pictures).  How many of them can?

It’s not so much the fact of getting older but rather, looking older. If there was a magic pill to turn back the clock I’m sure everyone would take it.  In the meantime, and eventually, aging is going to happen – deal with it! The notion that age can and should be transcended underlies an industry that has profits in the billions in the United States alone. Paired with the spending power and consumer habits of a characteristically youth-oriented generation, the search for a means of taking control of and ultimately conquering age has been met with a surge in available products and procedures to meet this demand.

Photo: huffington post-uk
Photo: huffington post.uk

While I’m not against those who opt for plastic surgery and cosmetic procedures, the numbers of those choosing to have them frighten me.

How about good old natural measures? We can age gracefully and stay youthful depending on how well we treat ourselves and our surrounding environment.  What about using common sense and doing the best we can to stay strong and healthy.  What we should most be concerned about is avoiding stress. If you have a lot of stress it will age you faster than anything.

Naturally good genes are a bonus, but you can eat well, exercise in moderation, try to get enough sleep, don’t drink too much, be nice to yourself, treat others well, find humour in life and use good products. (My conscience tells me not to use those tested on animals)  There is no compromising in these areas. Not only will you feel better but it will make you look good on the outside too.

Some skincare products can help prevent further wrinkles from forming and certain vitamins can help further the aging process but they can’t do all the work. You have to work together.  But no matter what you do, the facts show that having a lot of stress (which we all do at times) in life weakens your system and in turn can contribute to sickness and aging. I suppose this is where meditation comes in handy (for those who know how to do it properly) and taking time out for yourself.

I don’t think anyone truly has all the answers but for me personally I find taking a long walk in fresh air helps to clear up thinking.  Lately I’ve gone back to yoga (or semi-yoga, semi-workout since I’ve been breaking out a sweat) classes to help me work on my “core” issues. Seeing the results makes me feel better and makes me want to continue to get in the best shape I possibly can.  Listening to music while cooking is another relaxer and dancing is always lots of fun.  Anything that lifts your spirits is good for you. Shouldn’t we be concentrating on that.

mind you, there's something about his ad I like
Speaking of lifting your spirits, there’s something about this ad I like

What do you do to look after yourself?

beauty: J’aime JOUER

Meet JOUER Luminizing Moisture Tint

Jouer or to play in French is the playful name of a beauty line created by beautiful and busy mother of two, Christina Zilber.luminizing-moisture-tint_0_2

I sampled the Jouer golden & pearl tinted moisturizers recently and loved the texture and sheer hint of colour.  Infact, these are more hydrating than the one I previously used from Laura Mercier which is surprising since so many people swear by Laura Mercier.

JOUER has formulas filled with serious skincare ingredients like Ginseng and Gingko Biloba Leaf Extract.  Christina likes to say it is “beauty with skincare included.”  And as a busy mother of two, she wanted her products to do double duty.  And I think many people are looking for this effortless approach to beauty while still maintaining consistency.christina2PRODUCT DESCRIPTION

This lightweight moisturizing tint evens out imperfections and fades the appearance of fine lines with its light-diffusing multi-mineral formula. SPF 20 protects from UVA and UVB rays while natural ingredients deliver antioxidants to skin, promoting a healthy complexion. Light to Medium coverage.  50 mL / 1.7 fl oz

Oil Free. Hypoallergenic. Non comedogenic. Fragrance Free. Perfect for all skin types.

CHRISTINA’S TIPS

Apply to clean skin to even out skin tone. Layer for additional coverage.

Spotted at Wish List Boutique – 2811 West Broadway, Vancouver. Price: $40.00

beauty – find it everywhere

20150401_112855What never escapes my attention is all kinds of beauty products from makeup to skincare to candles & accessories.  I might not buy everything I see but there is  enjoyment in looking at pretty objects of desire.  The different smells, the packaging, the discovery of something new and the pure beauty of it all.

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These sweet sterling silver plated jewelled hair-pins from Lucky Feather.  Available at front and company  3742 + 3746 Main Street.  $9

Some temptations that smell good enough to eat – at Barefoot Contessa – 3715 Main Street.

Maria Evora
Maria Evora body lotions and soaps from SPAIN
Blithe Bunnt
Blithe & Bunny – handmade in the USA (honey almond)
ILLUME coconut milk mango
ILLUME coconut milk mango

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Go be Lovely – USA

Roberts Rose Cleansers & Toners from Italy

Raising the bar – while you’re there you should try the latte & lemon bar at Coco et Olive – 3707 Main St.  The very best lemon bar!20150401_121652

Be dashing, bold and fearless

Photos: d. king

beauty: your body and your body lotion

What’s in your BODY LOTION?

20150315_202320You’ve seen ingredients like Sodium Lactate, Glycerin and Ceramides right?  Did you know that these ingredients in the bottle are the same ones in you body?

Sodium Lactate: is a salt found in lactic acid, which your body makes when you exercise.  In lotion, it coats your skin and locks in moisture. (Ahava & Cetaphil are two that contain SL).

Glycerin: found in your skin’s fatty tissues is so good at preventing water loss that brands sometimes add a synthetic version to creams. (Vaseline Intensive Care, Eucerin & Jason contain glycerin as one of their ingredients).

Ceramides: are fats that help keep skin soft and strong.  Moisturizers with ceramides are especially good for ultra-dry skin. (CeraVe lotion is a well known brand that contains this).

Every good lotion should contain oils which penetrate skin to help rehydrate, plump, and fill in tiny cracks.  Coconut oil, olive oil & avocado oil are good natural ones.

Did you know?

Even lotions labeled “unscented” may contain masking fragrances that neutralize the smell of other ingredients – and companies don’t have to list them on the label.  So if you have ultra-sensitive skin, you should do a patch test first when using a new cream or body lotion.

Care to share which body lotion you’re using?

 

beauty: BE Beautiful Tattoes

As a general rule I’m not into tattoos for myself although I can admire them on someone else.home_brush3

I almost got up the nerve to have a tiny one engraved years ago when my sister and I booked appointments together in Toronto at a well known tattoo parlour.  She went ahead of me and came out with a beautiful little butterfly but then when it was my turn I chickened out.  I don’t like needles or pain so no tattoos to date.

But if I were to reconsider the BROW tattoo (to fill in some of the sparse areas) would be the route to go. brows02 If only because it comes highly recommended and I know someone who went and is happily satisfied with the results.  Because her brows were thin and light and now they’re perfect and more natural looking (even though they’re tattooed).  Sometimes we tend to over pluck and they don’t grow back fast enough and when they do, they don’t look the same.  This sounds like a good solution.  And it will give the appearance of fuller brows which I think is nicer than thin brows personally.  Even though thin was in.

Cosmetic tattooing is designed to enhance and refine your beauty and can be a life changing option for many reasons. Every individual has a unique set of requirements when it comes to their own personal beauty. The pros at BE are trained and experienced to ensure you get the look you desire.

Brianna Errelat, founder of BE Studio, is an accomplished makeup artist based in Vancouver, BC whose work can be seen extensively in fashion, commercial, print, editorial and wedding applications.  All services are completed by Brianna Errelat, certified in Permanent Makeup, Paramedical and Skin Revision.

 QUESTIONS??

WHAT IS COSMETIC TATTOOING?

Cosmetic Tattooing, also called Semi-Permanent Makeup or Micro pigmentation, is the process of implanting color pigment beneath the surface of the skin by means of a tiny, sterile, disposable needle to produce the appearance of cosmetic makeup or to enhance the natural features of the face.

 HOW LONG DOES THE TATTOO LAST?

Typically 1-3 years but a few factors come into play here.  The ink is iron oxide based, which means if you have an iron deficiency your tattoo will fade faster. If you’re a sun worshipper, get chemical peels, AHA, Glycolic etc. it will also cause the tattoo to fade faster. I recommend wearing SPF 50 on your tattoo (and your whole face really as we know what the sun does to our skin!)

 I’M NERVOUS…IS IT GOING TO HURT?

Don’t be nervous, I use an amazing topical anesthetic to numb the area before we start.  Your comfort is very important to me!  I also have a brow tattoo so I know how it feels.  Everyone’s pain threshold is different.  If yours is low feel free to take a NON BLOOD THINNING pain killer before your appointment like Tylenol. I continue to use numbing agents during the procedure as well.

 DO YOU HAVE TO SHAVE MY EYEBROWS OR EYE LASHES TO GET THE TATTOO?

Don’t laugh, this is a common question! No it’s not like a body tattoo where the tattoo artist has to shave the area before we start. I use the natural hair growth of your brow as a guide to give you the most beautiful result, and if you have no hair I create a brand new natural growth look for you!

 HOW DO YOU KNOW WHAT SHAPE AND COLOR TO USE?

I have 12 years of experience in the cosmetics industry, which has allowed me to work on every skin tone, brow shape, face shape, eye shape, and lip shape you could possibly think of!  This gives me a major advantage when it comes to choosing the design and color that suits you.  Having being “known” for brow design you can be confident you will walk out with a shape that suits your face and makes you look youthful, happy and polished!

 HOW TO BE PREPARED FOR YOUR APPOINTMENT

It is best to avoid alcohol, Aspirin, and Blood thinners (if possible) before your appointment.

 WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT AFTER YOUR SERVICE?

For the first 3 – 6 days, the color intensity of your procedure will be significantly darker, as well as larger and sharper than what is expected for the final outcome. Although the area will appear healed after 10 days, it will not be fully healed for 4-6 weeks (8 weeks for lips) to reveal the actual color, this is based on how quickly the outer layer of your skin exfoliates.

How do you feel about this?  Would you do it?

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ART: Highlights From A Never-Before-Published Interview With Henri Matisse

Henri Matisse is one of my all-time favourite artists.

Woman with a Hat.
Woman with a Hat, Henri Matisse

His romantic impressionist paintings leave me feeling like I want to walk right into them.  They make you want to dance naked holding hands in a circle, lie in a Garden of Eden and wear a fancy hat way too large for your face.

DESIGN OBSERVER HAS PUBLISHED AN ILLUMINATING, LONG-LOST INTERVIEW WITH FRENCH ARTIST HENRI MATISSE. READ SOME HIGHLIGHTS HERE.

In August of 1946, after the end of World War II, an art-obsessed American soldier named Jerome Seckler interviewed legendary French painter Henri Matisse. At the time, Matisse had been suffering from cancer for several years and was at work on his collaged cut-outs—specifically, large-scale works that would become Oceania, The Sky and Oceania, The Sea—which are now on view at New York’s Museum of Modern Art. In their extensive dialogue, Matisse discussed everything from the value of being a “starving artist” (“It is evident that in order to make good artists it is necessary that they not eat too well”) to the nitty-gritty of his creative process. The interview’s roughly 3,000-word transcript sat unpublished in a cardboard box for 70 years.

This year, Jerome Seckler’s son, Donald Seckler, unearthed the lost interview, which Design Observer has now published for the first time, in three installments.

In places, the interview turns into a heated debate—Seckler’s questions are challenging and provocative, and you can hear the ever-opinionated Matisse get a bit riled up. The artist’s comments range from the philosophical (“It is necessary that life be hard in order to form one’s character”) to the drily funny (“In America there are not enough bad boys”) to the self-reflective (“Do you think that I am neurotic? Is it seen in my paintings?”). Below are some highlights.

In part one of the interview, Seckler asks Matisse about the importance of subject in painting. “A book would be necessary to answer [this question],” Matisse replies. “The question is complex, very complex.” But he offers some opinions in this excerpt:

Henri Matisse: I think that art must not be a disagreeable thing. There is enough unhappiness in life to turn one towards the joy. One should keep the disagreeable, the unhappiness to himself. One can always find a pleasant thing. An unhappiness doesn’t remain. It makes experience. One doesn’t need to infect people with his annoyances. One should make a serene thing. One should make a stimulating art which leads the spirit of the spectator into a domain which puts him outside of his annoyances.

In part two of the interview, Matisse defends the starving artist, arguing that struggle builds a painter’s character:

Jerome Seckler: If the artist plays such an important role in society, don’t you think that a government subsidy should be paid the painter just like it pays any other government worker? He wouldn’t have to worry about where his next piece of bread was coming from. He could live a normal family life like any other person. He wouldn’t be at the mercy of a dealer. He should really be free to paint.

Henri Matisse: I am against ease. If one leaves the possibilities of getting a pension from the government for painting, to all the people who want to paint, all the Sunday painters will seize a brush. That is impossible. It is necessary that there be a straining. While giving to people who want to paint the facilities of doing it, it is necessary to put up a very strong barrier to prevent the invasion of the bad painter. Each time that a student who devotes himself to painting arrives at school for the first time, he should be given a volley of blows by a stick and after to lead him back to his home and he will see if he wants to begin again. If there was a test like that there would be a great many who would not return.

It is necessary that life be hard in order to form one’s character. That makes muscles. Art is a thing of exception. A great many people think today that they are artists because they see beautiful sunsets, or flowers. Today with the degree of civilization to which we have reached, everybody is sensitive to art, but that doesn’t mean that they are capable of making all that.

In this excerpt from part three, Matisse disses young copycat painters and discusses his painting process.

JS: When we look around at the young contemporary painters we see the tremendous influence of your painting. You have certainly helped change the direction of painting especially by your color.

HM: It is not my fault. I didn’t do it on purpose.

JS: Do you use color scientifically? What is your theory of color, especially as regards your conception of perspective?

HM: No, I don’t use color scientifically. And I have no theory of color. I haven’t any theory, even of drawing. That comes only from what I know what to look forward to. I work while waiting what will come. When I began painting, I copied the paintings in the Louvre and I finished by clarifying all that I thought and to see that color is a very beautiful thing. Why mix up the colors. Why trouble with all that. Why not utilize these colors as they are naturally. I searched for my combinations with combinations of colors which do not destroy themselves. In my [spirit], perspective is made in my head and not on the paper. That depends on you and the ideas you have. The most simple things are the most difficult.

The interview is well worth a read in its entirety—head to Design Observer for parts onetwo, and three of the extensive talk.

The true work of ART is but a shadow of the divine perfection – Michelangelo.

beauty: the luxury sleep mask

beauty and sleep go hand in hand20150130_171047       A good night sleep leaves us feeling refreshed = feeling good = looking good.  But we can’t get that if there’s too much light hitting our pillow.  If the room isn’t dark enough the best thing is to put on a face mask.  Make sure the elastic on the mask is not too tight so you don’t wake up with an outline around your face (= not attractive). My favourite masks are usually made of silk but we came across these mod designs in Palm Springs that manage to keep the light out but don’t press against your eyes and nose.   Which means you can sleep in full mascara (not usually a good idea) and not wake up looking like a raccoon.  SOLD!20150130_171152

Destination PSP, a Palm Springs owned and operated small business. They produce unique, originally-designed merchandise including souvenirs, customized apparel, poolside wares, housewares and more. Stylish, modern designs that reflect the mid-century heritage of the Palm Springs area and are sought-after collectibles for visitors and residents alike.

 Do you have a favourite sleep mask?

have beauty – will travel

Skin so Divine natural skincare line has come out with a convenient travel package with four complete products to hydrate, moisturize and soothe all skin types.

Skin so Divine Travel Set
Skin so Divine Travel Set

My skin is very sensitive. I was using this set in a very dry climate for over a month and my skin has never looked or felt better. Okay maybe when I was 15 it did but now that I’m older I want something that retains moisture and the oils in these products were sourced from the best around the world.  All ingredients are top-notch!

The set includes:

Ready for Take-off Makeup Remover, Refresh Facial Mist, It’s a Luxe Life Facial Oil (don’t be afraid of oil – it’s amazing for your skin) and Moisture Balm for eyes, lips & cuticles.  This is the only balm that works on my ragged cuticles.

It comes conveniently packaged in a *PET plastic carry bag which is BPA-free.  *PET is globally recognized as a safe, recyclable packaging material.  This makes it easier to travel on board with but you can also store it in your suitcase.  When you open the box It’s shipped in, it comes packaged inside a cute take-out lunch box.  Just for fun.

You can order under SHOP NOW at: http://getspoilednow.com/

Have you ever found a good trusty travel skincare set?

Feel-good Friday: a salon for swingers

A good haircut always makes you feel better.IMG_20150204_100819

Feeling like some weights been lifted – at least on my head.  Even a little trim can make a big difference in lightening up your day.  I found a cool salon in Palm Springs called “Spectrum Salon & Spa“.  The owner Christine, is originally from Denmark.

a customer painted this
a customer painted this for her

She loves boxers (the dogs not the sport) and has fun stuff to look at like clothing and accessories, some vintage.
 But most of all I love the swings.

A lazy dog waits while his owner gets a hair trim
A lazy dog waits while his owner gets a hair trim.  He’s wondering how much longer….

 

beauty– lemon lights

DIY natural highlightslemon - CopyYears ago there was a spray-on hair lightener called sun-in which  to my surprise is still on the market.  It was used to brighten & lighten blonde to medium brown hair.  You used it by dampening your hair and combing through to evenly distribute the product.  For a sun-streaked look you sprayed on only the stands you wanted highlighted.  It was heat activated,  so you just relaxed and let the sun do the work for you or you could bring the hightlights out with a blow dryer.  It now comes in “lemon fresh” and “tropical breeze”.  Who knows what all of the ingredients are but for sure there was some lemon in the “lemon fresh”.

There was a lemon tree with tons of lemons outside the bungalow we rented in Palm Springs so I got the fresh idea of doing my own lemon lights.   I mixed ½ cup of fresh squeezed lemon juice with ¼ cup of conditioner and combed it through my damp hair.  Then I sat out by the pool for an hour and a half while my hair slowly turned to straw.  At first it was scary because it seemed possible that my hair would just break off but after washing and putting tons of moisturizing conditioner on it – voila! It turned out to be at least one shade lighter.  FullSizeRenderFor DIY natural highlights you just repeat until you get the lightest shade you want.  It works.  You just need a sunny day.

Have you done this or used any of the products that claim to lighten your hair?