Style – the Great White

SHIRT 

Two great Classics!
Two great Classics!

A crisp, white button-down shirt is one of the most important pieces in a womans wardrobe.  It must be spotless whether it be long, short, fitted or loose and above all… perfect!white3

Ask any stylist or wardrobe consultant what the most important staple in a woman’s wardrobe is, and you can almost guarantee the answer you will be met with is a classic white blouse. white1For decades, white blouses for women have been both a basic workwear go-to and a stylish statement. The versatility is unmatched and the variations are endless.

 

Looking at both historical and modern perspectives, it is clear that white blouses for women will never lose their relevancy.

The white shirt can even be worn to black-tie events.

Layer your collar and cuffs with some statement knitwear, likeLupita Nyong'o on the Miu Miu front row.
Layer your collar and cuffs with some statement knitwear, likeLupita Nyong’o on the Miu Miu front row.
tunic style worn
tunic style paired with a classic black pant.

It can also be worn to black-tie events

casual on Cameron & flirty on Kate
casual on Cameron & flirty on Kate

A white shirt is a true workhorse.  It will see you through all seasons and all occasions.  It will look fresh, sporty, relaxed and SEXXXY!  What more can you ask for from one simple piece!?

 

Do you have a favourite?

Source: http://stylepremiere.com and http://oprah.com

 

Food – milk chocolate oatmeal cookies

I’m always in the mood to eat cookies brsugarchoccoconutbut I don’t always feel like making them. Part of the problem is that whenever I do make them I end up eating more than I should. This recipe is really easy and fairly healthy as far as cookies go…..(brown sugar instead of white, oats and only 1 egg) so I couldn’t wait to make them.  They’re quick and delicious and I just added coconut flakes.  You can double the recipe but if you want to ensure you don’t eat too many, maybe it’s a good idea to stick to the original.

Brown Sugar Chocolate-Chip Oatmeal Cookies

1 cup all-purpose flour

½ tsp. baking soda

½ tsp. fine sea salt

½ cup unsalted butter, either at room temperature or slightly chilled

1 egg

1 tsp. vanilla

½ quick oats

1 cup milk chocolate chips

unsweetened coconut flakes (optional)

Preheat oven to 325F.  Line 2 baking sheets with parchment paper.  If you don’t have parchment then spray baking sheets lightly with oil.

Stir flour, baking soda and salt in a medium bowl.  Beat butter with sugar in a large bowl until fluffy.  Beat in egg and vanilla.  Using a wooden spoon, stir in flour mixture until combined.  Stir in oats and chocolate chips.  Spoon 2 Tbsp. portions of dough, 3 in. apart, onto prepared sheets.  Flatten them slightly using your fingers.

Bake in centre of oven until edges are golden but centres are soft, 12-15 minutes.  Transfer cookies to a rack to cool completely.  Pour yourself a glass of milk!

Store at room temperature in an airtight container for up to 1 week.  But let’s face it – they’ll only last one or two days at most.

Makes 12-16 cookies.

If you really need to know they’re about 200 calories per cookie.

 Below are links to some other cookie recipes I’ve made and posted before (all equally delicious):

 

Sweet ‘n Saltyhttps://girlwhowouldbeking.com/2014/02/10/sweetly-satisfying-ultimate-chocolate-chip-cookies/

Veganhttps://girlwhowouldbeking.com/2014/03/25/simply-satisfying-vegan-chocolate-chip-coconut-cookies/

Ultimate Darkhttps://girlwhowouldbeking.com/2012/11/06/simple-and-satisfying-the-ultimate-chocolate-chip-cookies/

 

Words…relationships

Let’s have some FUN…..and not take life so seriously.relation1

MEN vs WOMEN – some quotes that made me smile:

Buy a ship, name it relation.  Now you have a RELATIONSHIP!

“I was married by a judge.  I should have asked for a jury.” – Groucho Marx

“A man can sleep around, no questions asked, but if a woman makes nineteen or twenty mistakes she’s a tramp.” – Joan Rivers

“Seems to me the basic conflict between men and women, sexually, is that men are like firemen. To men, sex is an emergency, and no matter what we’re doing we can be ready in two minutes. Women, on the other hand, are like fire. They’re very exciting, but the conditions have to be exactly right for it to occur.” – Jerry Seinfeld

According to a recent survey, men say the first thing they notice about women is their eyes. And women say the first thing they notice about men is they’re a bunch of liars. – Jay Leno

I want a man who is kind and understanding. Is that too much to ask of a millionaire? – Zsa Zsa Gabor

You’re 40 and he’s 22. Do you have to marry him? Couldn’t you just adopt him? – Ann Stanley, Forty Carats

“God gave men both a penis and a brain, but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time.” – Robin Williams

Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.” – Albert Einstein

Happy Sunday!

Health MATTERS: the skinny on PROTEIN

 A crash courseprotein1Believe me there’s far too much information so I broke it down as best I could (even though it’s a lot bit longer than my usual posts) from researching a few articles. I think we all know that keeping a balanced diet is really key.

What do I immediately do after a run or workout using weights at the gym?  Go home to make a smoothie with a BIG scoop of *protein powder.  Of course the smoothie is more of a thick milkshake-like consistency with other good stuff like banana, yogurt, frozen wild blueberries (I like it cold), wild green powder or juice, coconut water, flax & chia seeds and a good quality matcha green tea powder (from Japan).  This to me is the Ultimate workout recovery.  I try to drink it as quickly as possible so that the protein will adhere to my muscles ASAP!  Who knows but it feels really healthy, works for most athletes as I am a major athlete (of which I am not) but why not do as they do?

 Because WITHOUT PROTEIN, life as we know it would not be possible.

They’re used to make muscles, tendons, organs and skin.  Proteins are also used to make enzymes, hormones, neurotransmitters and various tiny molecules that serve important functions.

Bottom Line: Protein is a structural molecule assembled out of amino acids, many of which the body can’t produce on its own. Animal foods are usually high in protein, with all the essential amino acids that we need.

If we don’t get enough from the diet, our health and body composition suffers.

However, there are vastly different opinions on how much protein we actually need.     Most official nutrition organizations recommend a fairly modest protein intake.

  • 56 grams per day for the average sedentary man.
  • 46 grams per day for the average sedentary woman.

Although this meager amount may be enough to prevent downright deficiency, studies show that it is far from sufficient to ensure optimal health and body composition.

It turns out that the “right” amount of protein for any one individual depends on many factors… including activity levels, age, muscle mass, physique goals and current state of health.

The best sources of protein are meats, fish, eggs and dairy products. They have all the essential amino acids that your body needs.  There are also some plants that are fairly high in protein, like quinoa, legumes and nuts.

All of this being said, I don’t think there is any need for most people to actually track their protein intake.

If you’re just a healthy person trying to stay healthy, then simply eating quality protein with most of your meals (along with nutritious plant foods) should bring your intake into an optimal range.

If you have a physically demanding job, you walk a lot, run, swim or do any sort of exercise, then you need more protein. Endurance athletes also need quite a bit of protein, about 0.5 – 0.65 grams per pound, or 1.2 – 1.4 grams per kg.

Elderly people also need significantly more protein, up to 50% higher than the DRI, or about 0.45 to 0.6 grams per pound of bodyweight.

What “Grams of Protein” Really Means

This is a very common misunderstanding

When I say “grams of protein” – I mean grams of the macronutrient protein, not grams of a protein containing food like meat or eggs.

An 8 ounce serving of beef weighs 226 grams, but it only contains 61 grams of actual protein. A large egg weighs 46 grams, but it only contains 6 grams of protein.

What About The Average Person (of course we all think we’re all above average)?

If you’re at a healthy weight, you don’t lift weights and you don’t exercise much, then aiming for 0.36 to 0.6 grams per pound (or 0.8 to 1.3 gram per kg) is a reasonable estimate.

This amounts to:

  • 56-91 grams per day for the average male.
  • 46-75 grams per day for the average female.

But given that there is no evidence of harm and significant evidence of benefit, I think it is better for most people to err on the side of more protein rather than less.

Protein and THE ATHLETE – How Much Do You Need?weights1

By **Alexandra Caspero, MA, RD

Whether running sprints, long-distance swimming or lifting weights, athletes expend more energy than the average person and their bodies need additional nutrients to recover from intense physical activity. Protein plays an important role in an athlete’s diet as the nutrient helps repair and strengthen muscle tissue. Recently, high protein diets have become popular among athletes — especially those seeking a leaner, more defined physique. But how much protein is really necessary?

OVERALL DIET

While protein is critical in building muscle mass, more is not necessarily better. Eating large amounts of lean protein will not equate with a toned body.

When determining protein requirements for athletes, it’s important to look at the athlete’s overall diet. During periods of both rest and activity, protein contributes about 10 percent of the total fuel an athlete’s body uses. The remaining fuel used is made up of carbohydrates and fat. Athletes who consume diets adequate in both these nutrients end up using less protein for energy than those who consume a higher protein diet. This means that protein can go toward preserving lean body mass (i.e. that lean physique). So in order to retain muscle, athletes need to ensure they are also meeting needs for carbs and fat, not just protein.

ACTIVITY

Muscle growth happens only when exercise and diet are combined.

For example, research has shown that *timing of protein intake plays a significant role. Eating high-quality protein (such as eggs, dairy or soy) immediately after exercise — either by itself or with a carbohydrate — enhances muscle creation.

Duration and intensity of the activity is also a factor when it comes to protein needs.

Endurance athletes (such as runners, bikers and swimmers) tend to synthesize more protein for fuel while power (or strength) athletes (such as sprinters, weightlifters and CrossFitters) tend to synthesize less protein for fuel but retain more for muscle development.

Because they are building muscle, power athletes require a higher level of protein consumption than endurance athletes. “[Power] athletes’ protein needs are highest during the initial training phases, when muscle gain is largest,” says sports dietitian Kelly Rossi, MS, RD, CSSD. “As any athlete trains more, their body’s efficiency in using protein increases so they may not need as much.”

RECOMMENDATIONS

While protein needs of both endurance and power athletes are greater than that of non-athletes, they’re not as high as commonly perceived.

The Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, Dietitians of Canada and the American College of Sports Medicine recommend the following for power and endurance athletes, based on body weight:

  • Power athletes (strength or speed): 1.2 to 1.7 grams/kilogram a day
  • Endurance athletes: 1.2 to 1.4 grams/kilogram a day

For an adult male athlete, that’s about 84 to 119 grams of protein a day; for adult females about 66 to 94 grams.

By comparison, a sedentary adult male needs about 56 grams of protein a day; for females it’s about 46 grams.

Are POWDERS and SUPPLEMENTS Needed?

*Protein powders and protein supplements are great for convenience, but not to be solely relied on. Whole foods are always best, but with a busy athlete trying to juggle a million things, it is more realistic to provide them with the convenient shake.  It is for added reassurance.

*For the Ultimate protein, greens and fiber in powder form I use and recommend: http://www.ultimatevegan.com/products/

Source of info: http://authoritynutrition.com and http://www.eatright.org

**Alexandra Caspero, MA, RD, is owner of Delicious Knowledge in Sacramento, Calif. She specializes in plant-based diets, sports nutrition, food intolerance and weight management.

How about you?  What form of exercise do you regularly do and do you make a shake the minute you get home from your workout?

 

 

 

 

 

Feel-good Friday – birds of a feather

“Some birds are not meant to be caged, that’s all. Their feathers are too bright, their songs too sweet and wild.

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So you let them go, or when you open the cage to feed them they somehow fly out past you. And the part of you that knows it was wrong to imprison them in the first place rejoices, but still, the place where you live is that much more drab and empty for their departure.” birdcactus

 

– Stephen King, Rita Hayworth and Shawshank Redemption: A Story from Different Seasons.



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Photos: d. king

“In order to see birds it is necessary to become part of the silence” – Robert Lynd

Well said – that is even more true for photographing them.

Beauty biz – the Facial

For many years Optaderm has been my go-to place for facials. 

Products that work in simple packaging.
Products that work in plain packaging.

Okay there was a period of time where I tried other skincare specialists.  They lured me in off the street with their luxurious looking salons and some of their facials were very good but I’ve never been as satisfied as when Elizabeth attends to my skin at Optaderm.  She takes care of business. Hopefully she’ll be there as long as I continue going.

Optaderm will not lure you off the street.  In fact they’re located on the 3rd floor of a medical building.  You have to know about them.  The place is very pristine but not at all fancy.  Just the basics.  If you’re looking for fancy shmancy you must go elsewhere.20141010_170854

During the course of the complete one hour facial, we receive a relaxing aromatherapy massage, thorough deep pore cleansing, skin-smoothing peeling and calming facial masque.  And I always ask for *extractions (most other places will not do this maybe out of fear of messing up). They are not the most pleasant part of the facial but there always seems to be some to get rid of.

skincare line which you can use after the facial if you choose to
skincare line which you can use after the facial if you choose to

Optaderm also sells their own brand of skincare & some makeup (made at their in-house lab) with healthy ingredients like plant extracts, amino acids and vitamins.  They’ll probably give you a few generous size samples to try.  They’re able to sell their goods at a lower price point than  competitors by being a direct supplier to the customer.  You won’t be disappointed.

Optaderm, since 1987 has offered high quality products and one-on-one skin care advice.

http://www.optaderm.com/

*Extractions – meaning tiny (sometimes not so tiny) black & whitehead removal.  That’s all you need to know.

 

 

 

Health MATTERS: Relationships

Good relationships are not just found.  They must be created.

Relationships – Where Fantasy meets Reality:

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The following was written by *Brad King:

We’ve all heard the saying, “You need to love yourself before you can truly love another.” But what does that really mean? To love yourself is to respect yourself, which means you need to learn to respect the vehicle that allows you to love—your body and your mind.

When it comes to respecting your body and your mind, you need to understand that what goes into the vehicle, eventually dictates how efficient that vehicle will be able to perform. In other words, our ability to love with extreme passion is—to a large extent—subject to the way we feel from day to day, and science dictates that we can greatly enhance the way we feel by the way we move, by the way we think and by what we consume.

Regardless of why we feel love—love is… always has been… and always will be the force that drives us as humans. Everything we do in life is for one specific reason: to experience pleasure! And the ultimate pleasure is LOVE. You’ve fallen in love; maybe you’re getting married; now how do you keep your love alive?

Unfortunately as a relationship progresses, quite often the waist line expands. Couples tend to not try as hard, thereby allowing their exercise routine and healthy eating habits to go by the wayside.

As we age, our hormones start to wreck havoc within our bodies and with that comes a whole slew of complications, including: depression, moodiness, fat gain, difficulty sleeping, aching joints, low passion for life affect our love lives. So how do you become happy and healthy for life and maintain the incredible sex life you’ve always enjoyed? Following are my tips on how to feel, act and perform at your very best for life:

  • Have more fun and reduce stress
  • Consume smaller meals at regular intervals throughout the day (every 3-4 hours) to balance blood sugar and hormones
  • Eat organic foods whenever possible, as these foods contain more nutrition and less toxins
  • Smile more
  • Exercise (high intensity, short duration)
  • Dim the lights in the evening
  • Lose the belly
  • Avoid excess caffeine and alcohol, as both can exacerbate the stress response and interrupt sleep
  • Develop a healthy sleep routine: do the same things before you go to bed each night, it will train your body to get ready for sleep

    Brad King
    Brad King

*Brad King, MS, MFS, a nutritional researcher and award winning formulator has been touted as one of the most influential health mentors of our time. He is the author of 10 books, including Fat Wars, Beer Belly Blues and Losing Fat for Life. Visit him on Facebook @ Transforming Health with Brad King or on his website at: http://www.AwakenYourBody.com. – See more at: http://www.bridalfantasy.com/brad-king/#sthash.9Fi1U61d.rVCrNDPE.dpuf

including: How to FEED YOUR METABOLISM TO BURN EXCESS BODY FAT

 

style: seriously street…très CHIC from PARIS                  

Some might argue,  fashion saves the best for last – as in the final days of fashion month are upon us.

with Louis Vuitton bag
Chiara Ferragni with Louis Vuitton bag
Miroslava Duma in Leopard Coat.
Miroslava Duma in Leopard coat.
Miroslava Duma in Snakeskin Coat
Miroslava Duma in Snakeskin Coat.  The girl loves Animals.

Make your own assessments with my picks (choices I find more adaptable) from Diego Zukko’s  250 “best off the catwalks street shots” from Paris.

Prada Bag & Red Coat.  It's nice to put a Face to a Bag!
Prada Bag & Red Coat. It’s nice to put a Face to a Bag!
Casual Cool
Casual Cool with Fringe
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Joanna Hillman – Fringed jacket.
Joanna Hillman in Versace with Mark Cross Leopard bag.
Joanna Hillman in Versace with Mark Cross Leopard bag.
Michele Elie
Michele Elie
Bar Rafaeli in Stella McCartney jumpsuit
Bar Rafaeli in Stella McCartney jumpsuit
Emmanuelle Alt
Emmanuelle Alt

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Caroline de Maigret
Caroline de Maigret

 

 

 

MORE: Details on How to be a Parisian –  please click on the link to the video below which is not only funny but sadly true to fact.  Watch and Learn from the co- author of How to Be Parisian Wherever You Are: Love, Style, and Bad Habits.

Caroline the Great (I mean Maigret).
Caroline the Great (I mean de Maigret).

http://www.refinery29.com/2014/09/74884/laura-brown-caroline-de-maigret-how-to-be-parisian-video

Photo Source: harpersbazaar.com

 

 

Words…being an Italian

wannabeitalian2Italian style is a natural attitude. It is about a life of good taste. It doesn’t have to be expensive. Simple but with good taste. Luxury is possible to buy. Good taste is not. – Diego Della Valle (President and CEO of the Italian leather goods company, Tod’s).italian3

The trouble with eating Italian food is that five or six days later you’re hungry again. – George Milleritalian1

If your mother cooks Italian food, why would you go to a restaurant? – Martin Scorsese